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Doc Bry's Inspirations This is the Official page of Dr Erwin Brian Tan, meant to inspire others in this journey we call life

13/06/2025

Independence Day

02/12/2024

Under the golden skies of Bali, we wove a story that feels like a dream, yet so vividly real with you by my side. Our journey began in the tranquil elegance of Villa Bella, where the morning whispered promises of love and adventure.

Then, we stepped into the timeless allure of Taman Ujung Water Palace, a place steeped in history and beauty. Built in 1909 by the last King of Karangasem, this palace was once a symbol of royal splendor and a retreat for the Balinese monarchy. Its serene pools, elegant pavilions, and breathtaking views of Mount Agung reflected not just the artistry of its time but also the enduring legacy of love and resilience.

Strolling through its grounds felt like walking through a storybook, with every step drawing us closer to each other and to the magic of the past. The tranquil waters mirrored the sky above, and for a moment, it felt as if the palace had been waiting for us to add our chapter to its rich history.

As the day unfolded, we found ourselves at Pig Stone Beach, where the powerful waves crashed against the shore in a symphony as wild and passionate as the love we share. The sun kissed the horizon, painting the sky in hues of gold and crimson, and in that fleeting moment, time seemed to stand still, as if the universe itself paused to witness our story.

Bali wasn’t just a destination—it was a canvas, and together, we painted it with laughter, tenderness, and memories to last a lifetime. With you, every place becomes extraordinary, every moment eternal. You are my love, my adventure, and my home.

Celebrating my 8th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉
12/09/2024

Celebrating my 8th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

04/08/2023

I Just Kissed Marriage Goodbye
- Dr Erwin Brian Tan

I just kissed marriage goodbye… I have sacrificed the idea… I am not going to make it into an idol, because anything that takes your attention away from God, is an idol.

Yes, I am still prepared for it, I would be honored if it is for me… but I will not test God and say, "I have faith that it will happen!"... because it would be like me "telling the Creator what to do"... that if it doesn't happen in my life, I am showing that the Lord is powerless. That if no one is coming, I might even be forced to "help God", and just choose whoever that is convenient, just to prevent the Lord from seeming to be "incapable".

I will not hide my ultimate yearnings in statements like "I believe, therefore I will get it."... sometimes it is even the "false faith" that we have that impairs our blessings. Faith is the absolute trust in God to give or not to give... to take or not to take... and not merely to fulfill what we want.

Upkeep of a good Marriage is actually a huge responsibility... reserved for those well prepared... wisened by learnings, and toughened by experiences.

I have Faith that God will do what is best for me... because I love Him. That statement is Biblical.

What isn't Biblical is... I will get married and have kids because I have faith that God will give me the desires of my heart.

Our real desire... is to be happy, and most of the time, our flawed mindset is telling us marriage is the answer... well maybe it is... but if the current ratio of divorce is 1 out of 2.5 marriages, then maybe it isn't the path to endless bliss.

So, God will not give you the desires of your hearts? No, He will...but the real deep desire of our hearts is merely to be happy... and God will fulfill that. He wants us to be happy... but He will fulfill that in His own ways... because His ways are not our ways... our way of thinking is not His way of thinking.

There are so many ways on how to be happy, and sometimes marriage is even counter-productive as it is too much work just to get joy out of it. Travel, success in one's profession, and many more are easier.

My prayer is this "Lord, may this cup pass before me, but not my will, but Your will be done." And if above all this... I was still chosen to enter that ministry of marriage… then I pray that I would have the courage to pursue it, the willingness to give up my life for it, and the power to endure every testing that will come my way.

And to the one reading this… I want to end by saying… "Prioritize the fulfillment of the Joy of God, and all your deepest desires to be happy and joyful, will be added unto you. Go back to Him… seek Him and you shall find Him.

04/08/2023
I have reached 15K followers! Thank you for your continued support. I could not have done it without each of you. 🙏🤗🎉
03/08/2023

I have reached 15K followers! Thank you for your continued support. I could not have done it without each of you. 🙏🤗🎉

31/05/2023

Umabot nako sa stage ng buhay, na ang kaya ko nalang pakialaman ang sarili ko... I think aging din... or maybe maturity... or selfishness... or maybe too tired... either way, pag may naririnig ako na bad about others... iniisip ko nalang, sarap naman ng buhay nila if they will occupy a piece of my brain capacity... gagamitin ko nalang mag isip for business opportunities. 😄

Pero kung good... I choose to tell others para maging inspiration.

Here's why you should not GOSSIP.In Ancient Greece, Socrates had a great reputation of wisdom. One day, someone came to ...
23/05/2023

Here's why you should not GOSSIP.

In Ancient Greece, Socrates had a great reputation of wisdom. One day, someone came to find the great philosopher and said to him:
- Do you know what I just heard about your friend?
- A moment, replied Socrates.

Before you tell me, I would like to test you the three sieves.
- The three sieves?
- Yes, continued Socrates. Before telling anything about the others, it's good to take the time to filter what you mean. I call it the test of the three sieves.

The first sieve is the TRUTH. Have you checked if what you're going to tell me is true?
- No, I just heard it.
- Very good! So, you don't know if it's true.

We continue with the second sieve, that of KINDNESS. What you want to tell me about my friend, is it good?
- Oh, no! On the contrary.
- So, questioned Socrates, you want to tell me bad things about him and you're not even sure they're true?

Maybe you can still pass the test of the third sieve, that of UTILITY. Is it useful that I know what you're going to tell me about this friend?
- No, really.
- So, concluded Socrates, what you were going to tell me is neither true, nor good, nor useful. Why, then, did you want to tell me this?

"Gossip is a bad thing. In the beginning it may seem enjoyable and fun, but in the end, it fills our hearts with bitterness and poisons us, too!

This is Jim Thorpe. Look closely at the photo, you can see that he's wearing different socks and shoes. This wasn't a fa...
21/05/2023

This is Jim Thorpe. Look closely at the photo, you can see that he's wearing different socks and shoes. This wasn't a fashion statement. It was the 1912 Olympics, and Jim, a Native American from Oklahoma represented the U.S. in track and field.

On the morning of his competitions, his shoes were stolen. Luckily, Jim ended up finding two shoes in a garbage can. That's the pair that he's wearing in the photo. But one of the shoes was too big, so he had to wear an extra sock. Wearing these shoes, Jim won two gold medals that day. This is a perfect reminder that you don't have to resign to the excuses that have held you back.

So what if life hasn't been fair? What are you going to do about it today? Whatever you woke up with this morning; stolen shoes, ill health, failed relationships, failed business, don't let it stop you from running your race. You can experience more in life if you'll get over the excuses and get on with living. You can have reasons or you can have results...but you can't have both.

My friends, may we all strive to keep running in this life no matter what the problem with our shoes (life) may be.

Now be happy and go for gold as you "Live Life With No Regrets".

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