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The Dad Stories Project, Antipolo (2026)

04/03/2026

"LITTLE FEET, BIG STRIDES: CELEBRATING CLARA"

There are people whose energy seems endless, whose footsteps leave a mark not just on the pavement, but in the hearts of those around them. You are one of those people. Petit yet you run marathons literally and figuratively!
Your marathons are more than races; they are a reflection of your life itself.
It is a testament to perseverance, discipline, and determination.
Just as you pace yourself through each mile, you navigate challenges, embrace opportunities, and pursue your dreams with unwavering commitment.
Every step, every stride, is a lesson in endurance, showing all of us that greatness comes not from speed alone, but from the courage to keep moving forward, mile after mile.

Whether jogging in place while cooking, spinning through hula hoops, or mapping out the next adventure, your kinetic energy is unstoppable and inspiring.
You are competitive yet graceful, intelligent yet approachable, a master planner who turns every travel moment into a memory, every vacation into a story to treasure.
Your love for photography, your eye for detail, and your knack for makeup artistry reflect the care and thoughtfulness you pour into everything you do.
Simple yet classy, systematic yet creative, you move through life with intention and style.

Beyond your many talents, what truly stands out is your heart. You are generous and mindful of others, always thinking of how you can help, encourage, or uplift those around you. A woman of God, a leader, a source of light and guidance.
You leave a positive imprint wherever you go, quietly making life better for everyone blessed to know you.

This is my prayer of blessing for you on this special day.

" Heavenly Father, thank You for blessing Clara with life, energy, and a heart that inspires. Continue to guide her steps, strengthen her spirit, and fill her days with joy, purpose, and peace. Bless the work of her hands, her talents, her generosity, and her thoughtfulness. May her running, both on the track and in life, bring glory to You, and may she always find rest in Your presence. Surround her with love, wisdom, and grace as she continues to shine as a woman of faith, a leader, and a source of light to those she meets."

Clara, may this year be full of new adventures, meaningful memories, and spiritual growth. May your life continue to reflect God’s goodness, and may you walk each day in His abundant blessings.

“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” Proverbs 31:25

Happy Birthday, Clara!🎂🎁🎈
May this year be your best adventure yet, and may every stride you take in life carry you closer to all that is good, true, and beautiful. tribute

04/03/2026

NO WHEELS? NO WORRIES!

In the Book of Genesis, when God gave Noah the blueprint for the Ark (Genesis 6:14-16), He was very specific.
He gave the measurements.
He gave the materials.
He gave the design :
three decks,
one door,
a window.

But do you know what He did not include?

No steering wheel.
No rudder.
No sail.
No oars.

The Ark was NEVER meant to NAVIGATE.

It was meant to FLOAT.

The God Who Gives Specs and Withholds the Wheel

As a father, that detail grips me every time.

God could have instructed Noah on shipbuilding techniques. He could have added navigation tools. But He didn’t. Because in a world completely covered by floodwaters, there was nowhere to steer to.

The direction belonged to God.

Isaiah 55:9 says:

“As the heavens are higher than the earth,
so are my ways higher than your ways
and my thoughts than your thoughts.”

Noah’s job was obedience.
God’s job was direction.

Genesis 6:22 simply says:

“Noah did everything just as God commanded him.”

Not “Noah improved the design.”
Not “Noah added a rudder just in case.”
Just obedience.

What I Tell My Children

As a dad, I want to give my children everything like protection, wisdom, and opportunities. But I also know I cannot steer every storm they will face.

There will be seasons when:
• The rain won’t stop.
• The future feels flooded.
• The destination is unclear.
• Control feels impossible.

And that’s when I tell them:

“Sometimes God removes the steering wheel on purpose.”

Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us:

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways submit to Him,
and He will make your paths straight.”

Notice that He makes the paths straight.

Not us.

The Ark and Modern Life

In our world today, we love control.

We want five-year plans.
We want savings secured.
We want health guaranteed.
We want GPS directions for every decision.

But life often feels more like Noah’s Ark than a cruise ship.

We build careers.
We raise families.
We pray.
We obey.

Yet storms still come.

And when they do, we discover something humbling:

WE WERE NEVER MEANT TO STEER EVERYTHING!

There are seasons when the most faithful thing we can do is build what God asked us to build, close the door , and float.

Psalm 46:10 says:

“Be still, and know that I am God.”

Be still.

That’s floating language.

From a Father’s Heart

As I grow older , now in my 60s, I realize how many times God withheld the “steering wheel” from me.

Opportunities that didn’t push through.
Plans that changed.
Storms I didn’t anticipate.

Yet somehow, the Ark always rested exactly where it needed to.

Genesis 8:4 says:

“The ark came to rest on the mountains of Ararat.”

God steered it.
Not Noah.

And as a father, that gives me peace.

Because one day my children will sail into waters I cannot enter with them.

I won’t be in every classroom.
I won’t sit in every boardroom.
I won’t fight every battle beside them.

But the same God who guided a rudderless Ark is the same God who guides their lives.

The Lesson I Leave at the Dinner Table

So here is what I tell them:

Build faithfully.
Obey completely.
Trust deeply.

And when you cannot see where you are going, remember:

If God didn’t give you a steering wheel,
it may be because He intends to steer.

And sometimes, the safest place in a storm
is not at the helm ;
but in obedience inside the Ark.

22/01/2026

CHILLY MORNINGS, WARM BEDS, AND THE DAILY BATTLE OF A DAD

Lately, the weather up here in the hills of Antipolo has been playing mind games with us dads. Late afternoons are cool and breezy, and early mornings? Chilly, windy, and dangerously cozy. The kind of weather that makes your blanket feel like it’s hugging you back and your alarm clock feel like a personal enemy.

There’s a brief moment every morning when I negotiate with myself.

“Five more minutes!"
“It’s cold!"
“Surely the world can wait!"

But then reality taps me on the shoulder like work, responsibilities, and people who are counting on me. As a dad, I’ve learned that COMFORT is both a blessing and a test. It feels good, yes. But if you stay there too long, life quietly moves on without you.

The truth is, some of the most important things we do aren’t done when it’s convenient. They’re done when it’s uncomfortable. They're done when it’s cold, when it’s early, and when the bed feels way too good to leave. That daily choice to get up isn’t just about work; it’s about showing our kids what COMMITMENT looks like in real life.

I’m reminded of this verse every time I finally drag myself out of bed:

“The sluggard does not plow in season; at harvest time he looks but finds nothing.”
(Proverbs 20:4)

No one sees the early mornings. No one applauds the quiet discipline. But over time, those small decisions turn into something meaningful. It's about harvest of character, consistency, and trust.

So if you’re reading this while wrapped in a blanket, staring at your alarm clock, just know this: you’re not alone. GET UP ANYWAY!

The breeze will still be there later. And somewhere down the line, your family and your future will be grateful you did.

Here’s to chilly mornings, warm beds, and dads who rise anyway!😊 bed weather

13/01/2026

THE RESOLUTION I NO LONGER WRITE DOWN

At sixty-two, the New Year no longer arrives with noise for me. It comes quietly, like dawn over Antipolo. Soft light and familiar hills are a gentle reminder that I am still here, still entrusted with life. I sit beside my wife, the same woman who has walked with me through raising children, through joys and arguments, through prayers whispered and answered. Across the sea, in Adelaide, three small voices call me POPS. I know them mostly through screens and photos, through stories told at odd hours because of time zones. Yet my love for them is no less real. I place their names before God each morning, believing His word: “The Lord will watch over your coming and going, both now and forevermore” (Psalm 121:8).

Our children are grown now, all married, living lives we once dreamed for them. Two are far away, one is near, but all are held the same in my heart. I have learned that fatherhood does not end when children leave home. It becomes quieter, more prayerful, more trusting. There are nights when I miss their laughter in the house, and mornings when gratitude fills the space instead. God tells me, “See, I am doing a new thing” (Isaiah 43:19), and I am learning to believe Him.

Here at home, my days revolve around simpler rhythms. My eighty-eight-year-old mother moves slowly now. Sometimes she forgets, sometimes she repeats the same stories. But I just listen. I remember the hands that once guided mine, now resting in mine. Caring for her humbles me. It reminds me that strength is not always loud. “Honor your father and your mother” (Exodus 20:12) is no longer a verse on the wall; it is love practiced in patience.

My New Year’s resolution is not written on paper. It is written in the way I choose gentleness when I am tired, gratitude when life feels small, and faith when distance hurts. “His mercies are new every morning” (Lamentations 3:22–23). That is enough for a man my age. I no longer ask for a bigger life, only a deeper one.

If there is a lesson I carry into this new year, it is this: God’s purpose does not fade with time. It ripens.
This 2026, my resolution is to walk gently, pray constantly, and trust completely. I believe that even in this season of waiting, watching, and caring, God is still at work, weaving purpose into every ordinary day.

30/12/2025

HEROES WITHOUT HOLIDAYS

Today, December 30, we remember a man who chose duty over comfort.
On this day in 1898, Dr. José Rizal faced death not with fear,
but with conviction.
It was a life offered quietly for a greater good.

As the calendar turns, the holidays stretch long
from December 27 to January 2,
days meant for rest, reunion, and welcome.
For many, it is a season of laughter, midnight toasts,
embraces held a little longer as the New Year arrives.

Yet for some, the year begins differently.

From December 30 to January 2,
while fireworks bloom in the sky
and families gather at the table,
my Anesthesia resident physicians remain on duty.
They will welcome the New Year not with noise and celebration,
but under the steady glow of operating room lights,
listening to monitors instead of music,
holding vigilance instead of sparklers.

They will greet January not with family at their side,
but with patients who need them;
trauma victims rushed in without warning,
mothers in urgent need of life-saving cesarean sections,
lives balanced delicately between danger and hope.

No countdown marks their midnight; only responsibility.

And yet, in this quiet sacrifice,
a timeless promise speaks gently to the weary heart

“Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
(Galatians 6:9)

What then are the life's lessons in this?
True service often costs us moments we long to keep.
It asks us to SHOW UP WHEN IT IS HARDEST,
to REMAIN FAITHFUL WHEN COMFORT IS ELSEWHERE,
to LOVE NOT IN WORDS, BUT IN PRESENCE.

Like Rizal, whose heroism was not celebrated in his lifetime,
these residents teach us that
GREATNESS IS OFTEN QUIET,
and SACRIFICE IS OFTEN UNSEEN.

So to those who will count the New Year
by heartbeats and vital signs,
who will spend December 30 to January 2
away from home, away from family,
know this:

Your sacrifice matters.
Your faithfulness is seen.
And the world may not applaud,
But GOD DOES.

28/12/2025

NOT EVERY BRANCH IS MEANT TO STAY

I didn’t expect to learn a life lesson at a birthday party.
But that’s how it goes when you’re a dad—you show up for cake and end up going home with a reminder you didn’t know you needed.

Yesterday was my balae Fides’ birthday. Her house is surrounded by bonsai plants—every corner had one. Quiet, steady, almost watching you back.

A bonsai artist started working, and I found myself standing there longer than planned. No phone. No rush. Just watching.

He pruned carefully.
Branches that looked healthy were cut off without hesitation.
That made me uncomfortable.

Someone asked him how long a bonsai could live.

He smiled and said, “A century… sometimes more.”

That stopped me.

A tree that small.
Trimmed so often.
Yet built to outlast us all.

What I Realized Watching Him Work

The bonsai wasn’t being punished.
It was being prepared.

The artist wasn’t trying to make it bigger—
he was trying to make it last.

As dads, we’re wired to think growth means more—
more work, more plans, more control, more provision.
But the bonsai showed me something different:

Endurance matters more than expansion.

Jesus said it plainly:

“Every branch that bears fruit He prunes, that it may bear more fruit.”
(John 15:2)

Not less fruit.
More.

A Dad’s Perspective on Pruning

As fathers, we want to give our children everything.
But real love isn’t letting everything grow unchecked.

Sometimes LOVE is knowing what to remove.

That’s true in parenting.
In marriage.
In our own lives.

Some habits look harmless but drain us.
Some ambitions pull us away from what matters.
Some seasons end not because we failed,
but because God is protecting what must last.

“For whom the Lord loves, He disciplines.” (Hebrews 12:6)

That’s not rejection.
That’s careful hands at work.

What I’m Taking Home

That bonsai may live for a hundred years
because someone was willing to cut it today.

So when life trims something from me—
a plan, a season, a version of myself I was comfortable with—
I’m learning not to panic.

NOT EVERY BRANCH IS MEANT TO STAY.
AND NOT EVERY CUT IS A LOSS.

Some are shaping us
into men who last—
men our children can rely on,
men rooted deeply enough
to weather a lifetime.

So I leave you with this question:
👉 What branch in your life might God be pruning right now—not to harm you, but to help you last? trimming

25/12/2025

"FULL TABLE, EMPTY DRIVEWAY"

After Dave and Geo’s three-day, two-night visit—and after all the careful preparations, laughter, and warmth of Christmas—the house slowly grew quiet. Our table had been overflowing just hours before: Pizza Hut’s cheese-stuffed crust pizza stacked in boxes, sumptuous Korean beef bulgogi, Krispy Kreme donuts lined up like a sweet afterthought, and Magnum ice cream tucked away for later indulgence. It was a table that spoke of abundance, of togetherness, of shared moments.

We gathered for our goodbye prayers and blessings, lingering a little longer than usual, reluctant to let the moment end. And when their car finally pulled away and disappeared down the road, it suddenly hit me, Penn, and Mama all at once—a gentle ache of longing, a quiet sadness settling in, the kind that comes only after a house has been full and love has just left the driveway. 😔

In that moment, I finally understood how my parents must have felt years ago, standing here in Antipolo, watching us pack up and head back home to Quezon City—smiling through their goodbyes, while their hearts quietly learned to miss us.

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

This season reminded me that visits end, tables are cleared, and houses grow quiet—but love does not leave with the car. If there is a lesson here for whoever reads this, it is this: CHERISH the moments while they are happening. STAY a little longer. Pray together. Break bread generously. One day, you may find yourself standing where your parents once stood, learning that the ache of goodbye is simply the price we pay for having loved well. 😊 the moments

24/12/2025

MAMA's DAY OUT

Yesterday was our wedding anniversary.
But love, I realized, sometimes celebrates itself best by giving itself away.

Instead of a quiet date with my wife, we chose to honor my 88-year-old mother. No candles, no fancy reservations—just a simple promise the night before: “Mama, we’ll leave for McDonald’s around 8 a.m.”

By 7:15 a.m., she was already ready.

There was a childlike joy in her eyes—the kind that doesn’t demand luxury, only presence. We all shared breakfast at her favorite place, even our house help included, because love expands when it is shared. In that moment, McDonald’s became sacred ground.

After breakfast, we treated her to a salon—hair freshly colored, nails cared for, dignity gently restored through simple acts of attention. Meanwhile, my wife lovingly prepared dinner at home, each dish a quiet sermon on service.

Later, Mama and I went on a lunch date at a Japanese restaurant in Robinsons Antipolo. I worried she might get tired—no wheelchair, crowds rushing for Christmas, a mall too big for fragile legs. But she walked patiently, fueled not by strength of body, but by determination of heart.

Three pieces of her favorite ebi tempura, some chicken karaage, and then—her small but earnest mission: finding a replacement bag, fuschia in color. We didn’t find one. And yet, there was no complaint. Only contentment. Only time together.

I told her, “Mama, I’ll find it on Shopee.”
She smiled.

At 6 p.m., she had dinner—on time, as she always does. But she didn’t retire for the night. Instead, she stationed herself in the TV room, waiting. Waiting for her grandson Dave and his wife Geo, who arrived close to 11 p.m.

She waited because love always waits.

When we finally gathered, the table overflowed:
Camaron rebosado. Fresh lumpia. Chicken pastel. Laing. Rellenong bangus. Beef mechado. Inihaw na baboy. Rice. Caramia cake. Salted caramel coffee.

It felt like a foretaste of Christmas—messy, late, abundant, imperfect, and holy.

We ended past midnight.

And somewhere between the laughter, the food, and Mama’s quiet presence, I realized something sacred:

“Gray hair is a crown of splendor; it is attained in the way of righteousness.”
— Proverbs 16:31

This day was not about how much we spent, where we went, or how tired we were. It was about HONOR. About slowing down enough to recognize that time is the most expensive gift we will ever give.

Scripture says:

“Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.”
— Exodus 20:12

HONOR is not loud.
It looks like waking up early for breakfast.
Like walking slowly in a crowded mall.
Like waiting past bedtime just to see someone you love walk through the door.

Life teaches us to chase milestones. But LOVE teaches us to pause.

One day, the bags won’t matter.
The restaurants won’t matter.
Even anniversaries will fade into memory.

What will remain are moments like these—when we chose presence over convenience, service over self, and love over schedule.

And maybe that is the lesson for all of us:

Before time runs out, sit at the table.
Walk a little slower.
Wait a little longer.
Love a little deeper.

Because one day, someone will tell your story.
And may it be said that you, too, knew how to honor love while there was still time.❤️😊

23/12/2025

My Dearest Penn,

Today, as we celebrate our 37th wedding anniversary, my heart is filled with gratitude, reverence, and a love that has deepened and matured through every season of our life together. Thirty-seven years ago, I made a vow to walk this journey with you—and with each passing year, you have shown me what that promise truly means.

Penn, you have been my partner in every sense of the word. You have been my strength in times of weakness, my peace in moments of uncertainty, and my constant reminder of God’s faithfulness. Through joys and trials, abundance and sacrifice, you have remained steadfast—loving with patience, serving with humility, and believing with unwavering faith.

One of the greatest blessings God has given us is our family. Together, we raised three God-fearing men—Daniel, Cholo, and Dave—and today we rejoice in the families they now lead.
Daniel is married to Clara, Cholo to Faye, and Dave to Geo. Through Cholo and Faye, we are also blessed with three wonderful children—John, Olive, and Noel—precious gifts and living proof of God’s promise from generation to generation.

Penn, your influence is evident not only in our sons, but also in the kind of women they chose to walk beside them. Clara, Faye, and Geo are all strong women of God, women of faith, grace, and character. This is no accident—it is the fruit of the example you lived before them, showing what it means to be a godly wife, mother, and servant of the Lord.

Thank you for choosing me every day—even when love required sacrifice. Thank you for the prayers whispered when no one else heard, the strength you carried when no one else saw, and the faith that anchored our marriage when storms came. You made our house a home, our marriage a sanctuary, and our family a testimony of God’s enduring goodness.

As I look back on these 37 years, I treasure the ordinary moments that became sacred simply because I shared them with you. And as I look ahead, I do so with confidence and peace, knowing that whatever years God still grants us, I want to spend them loving you, honoring you, and walking with you—hand in hand, heart to heart.

You are, and always will be, my greatest earthly treasure.

“A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.”
— Proverbs 31:10–12

Happy 37th wedding anniversary, my love. Thank you for a lifetime of faith, family, and faithful love. I thank God for you every day—and I always will.

I love you!❤️

22/12/2025

"SERVE , SMASH, EAT, LAUGH!"

It all started quite simply—an intense game of badminton followed by eating out sometime in June 2023. That was when I reconnected with the power couple, Norman and Melody, along with Lee, Melody’s close friend and a badminton powerhouse himself. What began as post-game hunger soon turned into something more meaningful.

We jokingly called ourselves TEAM BUSOG, united not just by sweat on the court but by our shared love for food adventures. Social media became our guide—TikTok and Instagram leading us from one dining experience to another. From Ganso Shabuway at Shangri-La Mall, Maker and Made in BGC, Komoro in SM Megamall, Prologue, Yushoken, Meat Depot, and Shima Japanese Restaurant in Parañaque, to gourmet burgers at One World Deli in San Juan and the comforting foods of Sourdough Cafe tucked away in one of the Scout streets in QC. And when budgets were tight, JT’s Manukan near N. Domingo never failed us.

Eventually, Team Busog evolved into TEAM GUTOM—para kaming Friday club. Those gatherings were filled with laughter, teasing, stories, and moments when time seemed to slow down. Food was just the excuse; friendship was the real feast.

As life would have it, responsibilities crept in. Work schedules no longer aligned, calendars grew crowded, and meet-ups became rare. One day, we realized we missed those simple moments—the shared meals, the jokes, the feeling of belonging. Even when we weren’t always complete, the respect and friendship remained intact.

Then came last Friday, December 29, 2025. For the first time in a long while, we were all together again. What was supposed to be a simple lunch at Giwon Steakhouse turned into an afternoon that stretched into the halls of Mitsukoshi Mall in BGC. Endless photos were taken—not for social media, but to preserve memories of a simple reunion and a quiet Christmas celebration among friends.

In that moment, I was reminded of a simple truth: life moves fast, and time is never guaranteed. Friendships don’t fade because of distance or busyness; they fade when we forget to nurture them.

This experience taught me to value the people God places in our lives. Success, work, and daily responsibilities matter, but they should never replace relationships. Moments shared over food, laughter, and presence are often the ones that sustain us when life becomes heavy.

It also reminded me that intentionality matters. Friendships don’t just happen; they are chosen, cultivated, and protected. Even a simple meal can become sacred when shared with the right people.

Most importantly, it encouraged gratitude—thanking God not just for the milestones, but for the ordinary days that quietly become extraordinary because of the people we share them with.

“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity.”
—Psalm 133:1

In the end, life isn’t measured by how busy we are, but by how deeply we love and how faithfully we show up—for God, for family, and for friends who feel like family.

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