Couple Vibes

16/07/2025

Married women listen to outsiders' advice only.

Unfortunately, such outsiders are also struggling in their homes or, worse, have broken their homes and recruit others to justify how men are bad or that the family they married into is bad.

They are argumentative and opposed to every effort made by their husbands to resolve conflicts.

15/07/2025

Regina Daniel married her husband in her prime , at that moment she was very hot and every one wanted her but she decided to settle down with her baby .

Mercy Johnson married her husband in her prime , at that moment everyone was enjoying her shape ,beauty and everything but she decided to get married .She knew what was important

These two women knew there was nothing out there , they knew there is pride in settling down and building a home .

Some of you are hot now , you don’t just want to hear anything about marriage , you want to live your life , go to clubs , smóke , sleep with many men and ask them to forget about your past when you are tired . No one is going to forget your past .

Moral lesson : Your past will always catch up with you . Just dey play . No one is going to forget about your past .
There is nothing out there , settle down .

Happy new week .

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14/07/2025

Being real will cost you some people—but pretending will cost you yourself.

Stay authentic. 🗣️🔉🔊

14/07/2025

Good evening. I’m currently involved in a complicated situation that weighs heavily on me. I’m seeing a married man, something I know is wrong, and I carry a lot of guilt about it.

It started innocently. He’s my colleague at work, married with children. From the very first day, he was incredibly kind and supportive. He helped me understand my role better, guided me through challenges, and was always available when I needed help. Over time, I started developing feelings for him, but I kept them hidden because I knew he was married.

Eventually, I tried to distance myself. I thought stepping back would help me regain control and avoid going down a path I knew wasn’t right. But he didn’t take it well. One day, he came to me in tears, saying he felt incredibly lonely and couldn’t bear the thought of me cutting him off. That was when he confessed that he, too, had developed feelings for me.

I was torn. I didn’t expect to hear that, and though I felt guilty, I also felt seen, understood, and safe in his presence. There’s a calm I experience around him that I’ve never known before.

One evening, while he was walking me home, we kissed. It just happened. Unplanned, emotional, and full of everything we’d both been holding back. Since then, I’ve been caught between guilt and comfort. I know what we’re doing isn’t right, but I can’t seem to let go of the peace and connection I feel when I’m with him.

Please, I need your advice.

14/07/2025

«Je t’aime,

Je t’aime d’une manière inexplicable, de nature inavouable, de façon contradictoire.
Dans le temps, la vie, la mort.

Je t’aime
Avec ce monde que je ne comprends pas,
Avec ces gens qui ne saisissent rien,
Avec l’ambivalence de mon âme,
Avec la fatalité du destin,
Avec la conspiration du désir,
Avec l’ambiguïté des faits.

Je t’aime
Sans réfléchir, inconsciemment, irresponsablement, spontanément involontairement, instinctivement, par impulsion, irrationnellement.

En effet, je n’ai pas d’arguments logiques,
même improvisés pour expliquer cet amour que je ressens pour toi, qui a émergé mystérieusement de nulle part, qui magiquement n’a pas été rien, et qui miraculeusement, d’un peu, avec peu et rien m'a totalement transporté.

Je t’aime,
Je t’aime avec un corps qui ne pense pas,
avec un cœur qui ne raisonne pas,
avec une tête qui ne se coordonne pas.

Je t’aime
incompréhensiblement
Sans m’étonner de pourquoi je t’aime,
Sans m’importer de pourquoi je t’aime,
Sans me questionner de pourquoi je t’aime.

Je t’aime,
tout simplement parce que je t’aime.»

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14/07/2025

The Whole Point Of Dating Is Marriage. Dating Is Supposed To Be A Trial Before Marriage. You Are Testing & Checking If This Is Someone You Can Marry. That's The Whole Point Of Dating. The Mistake Many People Make Is Thinking That Dating Is For Love. Dating Has Never Been About Love.

You Are Supposed To Be Learning Each Other. The Main Thing Is Marriage. If You Make Dating About Love. You Will Always Change Partners Because Love Runs Out.

But If You Date Someone To Learn Them. There Would Be No Need To Change That Person Because You Would Be Too Tired To Start All Over & Learn Someone Else.

14/07/2025

HER SILENT BREAKTHROUGH

Sometimes, the bravest thing a woman can do
is go quiet—
not because she’s weak,
but because she’s wise enough to know
when her words fall on deaf ears.

It takes courage to stop explaining herself
to someone who never truly listened,
to stop pouring out her soul
to a man who couldn’t see her worth,
even when it was shining
right in front of his eyes.

You can give your love freely,
offer every piece of your heart,
fight with all your spirit
to keep the connection alive—
and still come to the painful truth:
he’s simply not built
to love you the way you deserve.

And that realization?
It’s not a loss.
It’s a breakthrough.

Because real love doesn’t need convincing.
It sees you in your fullness—
your strength, your softness, your fire.
It holds space for all that you are,
without asking you to dim your light,
to become smaller,
just so someone else feels bigger.

So, no—
don’t keep dimming your brilliance
for someone who’s never learned
how to stand in its glow.

Your power is not a burden.
Your fire is not too much.
It’s a gift.

And the right person
will see it, cherish it,
and love you fiercely,
without needing a thousand explanations.

14/07/2025

Sis, if he’s younger than you, and he’s not a thúg, a màd man in disguise, or an unbeliever, then please, sit your egoistic shoulders down and listen to his proposal. Stop losing quality men over numeric gibberish on some birth certificate.

"I can never marry someone younger than me. God forbid!"

Really? What if that's God's plan and purpose for you? Will you let your pride and personal sentiment hinder you from obeying Him?

Why not go to God and ask Him sincerely:
“Lord, this man has asked for my hands in marriage, is he Your son? Is he Your will for me? Do you approve of him?”

Then, wait patiently for His response before making any hasty decisions. Don't turn dowm his proposal just yet, because quality products sometimes doesn't come in old packages.

Did you know?

Fools grow old just as the wise do. Age doesn’t equal wisdom. Grey hair doesn’t automatically mean grace or wisdom.

Maturity isn’t measured in years but in decisions, responsibility, and godliness.

Dear Church Girl, your Boaz may not come with a walking stick and a pension plan. Sometimes, what you’re searching for in the future is already standing beside you right now.

You’ve prayed for a godly man.
You’ve asked for a kind heart, vision, and leadership.
Now he’s here, but just younger. Will you walk away because of prîde?

Don't forget this: Sometimes you search high and low for something, only to find it right under your nose.

Don't let pride talk you out of God's plan.

SIS, SIT YOUR PROUD SHOULDERS DOWN!

Yes, you heard me right.

Before you lose a good man because of age difference, seek God's face for directions.

Having a Godly, Healthy, and Blissful Marriage is possible!



© Debby Airebanmen-Jegede (MARITAL BLISS COACH)
Christian Relationship Coach | Marriage Counselor | Women Empowerment Coach | Women's Mentor

14/07/2025

WHY MEN DIE SILENT DEATHS IN MODERN MARRIAGES

My guy, plenty men dey die inside marriage — not because bullet meet dem, but because emotional, mental, and spiritual pressure don finish dem quietly. Na silent death wey no get pity. Read these 8 points wey dey kill men inside modern marriage:

🔥 1) Crushing Financial Pressure
Many men dey carry heavy load alone because society don wire am say “man must provide.” Even if dem dey drown for debt or stress, dem no fit talk — dem go bottle am until body break.

🔥 2) Constant Criticism from Wife
Instead of encouragement, some women dey use every opportunity talk down on their husband — insult his effort, compare am with other men, or make am feel worthless. E dey wound his spirit.

🔥 3) Emotional Neglect
Men dey need love, care, and understanding too. But many wives dey ignore their emotional needs, leaving dem lonely even inside marriage. Silence and coldness dey break man heart.

🔥 4) Fear of Shame or Divorce
Many men dey swallow pain because dem no wan shame or divorce tag. Dem go endure abuse, disrespect, or humiliation quietly to keep family image, but e dey eat dem from inside.

🔥 5) No Safe Space to Vent
Men no get who to talk to. If dem talk, people go say “man up.” Friends no fit help, and society dey mock men wey dey show weakness. Dem go suppress depression until e explode.

🔥 6) Lack of Appreciation
Plenty men dey give everything for wife and children, but no “thank you” or appreciation dey come. This constant feeling of being unappreciated dey make men lose will to keep fighting.

🔥 7) Social Expectations to “Man Up”
From childhood, society dey train men say dem no suppose cry, break down, or show fear. Na why dem dey hide struggles until dem mental health collapse.

🔥 😎 Silent Depression Weaken Body and Mind
All the stress, disrespect, and bottled emotions dey lead to silent depression. E dey affect man health, raise blood pressure, cause stroke or heart attack. Many die young because dem dey suffer in silence.

🚨 Final Word:
Bros, your life na important pass any fake image. Speak out, find help, and no dey kill yourself quietly. Women and society too gats learn say men be human beings wey need love, support, and peace too. Men deserve better — no wait make silent pain cut your life short.