23/04/2024
I ventured to Lisbon on a hunt. I caught some things, others slipped away. Once again, I realized that stalking is an art that one must learn in absolute “sobriety.”
But it’s also crucial to aimlessly wander along deserted paths, turn into mysterious alleys, strike up conversations with strangers, and give alms. You never know where the next turn might lead you.
One of my goals was to find a Buddhist community. There are many Neo-Buddhists nowadays, and finding someone is not difficult, but I was looking for those who wear maroon robes and have experienced a three-year retreat. I really wanted to be near them, to soak up their diligence—perhaps my three-day retreats could seamlessly extend into ten-day ones.
In the last week of my stay in Lisbon, I unexpectedly learned that a retreat with Pema Khenpo, one of the disciples and close followers of Chökyi Nyima Rinpoche, whom I had heard much about, would be held in Sintra. The three-day retreat took place at Lisbon Dharma House—a charming house with a spacious ocean view. There were few of us, but nearly half had come specifically from other countries.
What I like about interacting with Buddhists is that to the three classic (and somewhat tiresome) questions—name, country, job—an additional one is added: “How did you come to Buddhism?” People’s faces (perhaps mine as well) begin to glow as they share their stories of search, spiritual intuition, and decisions that are insane from a worldly success standpoint.
Why, among all religions (and philosophies too), do I resonate most with Buddhism? Because it teaches us to first notice, then accept, and finally embrace impermanence. When the mind sees the truth of impermanence, it becomes calm (after all, not only will everything pass, everything is already passing right NOW).
And when the mind is calm, it becomes clear.
And when it is clear, the mind becomes kind.
And when the mind is kind, it is happy.
Sarva Mangalam! May everyone find their path to the Truth.