12/06/2025
You can always tell a Swede?” Here’s the real story behind the stereotype.
Did you grow up hearing that your Swedish heritage was all about being stubborn and serious? It’s time to bust that myth.
As a genealogist, I help people around the world discover their Swedish roots. To understand my clients better, I’m always learning what they know about Sweden. Through the years, I’ve discovered that many Swedish-Americans think of Swedes as stubborn—there’s even a saying about Swedes being set in their ways! As a Swede, I was actually quite shocked when I first learned this. (Take it from me, don’t say this to your Swedish cousins. It’s a bad idea.)
But here’s the truth: Sweden grew from innovation and cooperation. Swedes are big on consensus—some would say to a fault. And while we’re known for being diligent (imagine surviving winters as dark as Alaska’s without electricity!), pride is almost taboo. The Law of Jante means you don’t make a fuss about yourself or your accomplishments. Fitting in is the norm.
Despite the hardship, your Swedish ancestors always found time to celebrate—and often in the silliest ways. Midsummer is a day for dancing around a leafy pole like little frogs and singing. At Christmas, the dance goes through the entire house, and by Easter, Swedes dress up as witches. Your ancestors never missed a chance for some fun, even with all the hard work.
Here’s what I want you to know: your Swedish ancestors weren’t just Swedes—they were survivors. Many left everything behind for a better future, facing new hardships with determination and hope. If you think of your Swedish roots as stubbornness, I invite you to look deeper. You’ll discover resilience, joy, and a little bit of magic.
Is your Swedish family history having you scratch your head? I’m offering “Your Swedish Roots Roadmap,” a mini service where I review your situation and offer one next step towards your next discovery.
Your Swedish Roots Roadmap is only available until June 23, before I go on vacation. 🏖️
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What’s the quirkiest Swedish tradition in your family? Share below!