The Calming Ark Psychological Services

The Calming Ark Psychological Services The Calming Ark strives to create - through psychological therapy - a safe and calming haven as we journey with you through the storms of life.

We're a litle late in the game but we had some reflections we couldn't not sharel Behind the fantasy and music in Netfli...
25/09/2025

We're a litle late in the game but we had some reflections we couldn't not sharel Behind the fantasy and music in Netflix's "KPop Demon Hunters", the story mirrors certain aspects our inner worlds. Rumi's journey is more than fighting demons-it's about facing the parts of ourselves we often hide.

Shame grows in silence, shame wants to keep parts of ourselves hidden. When we suppress parts of who we are, we carry a heavy burden of "masking" these parts of us. Over time, this drains our energy and distances us from authenticity.

But healing begins when we practice radical acceptance which is the practice of accepting reality as it is, even when it's painful or difficult, without judgement, resistance, or wishing it were different. This doesn't mean we have to like every part of ourselves. Rather, it means choosing to see all our "light and shadow" as worthy of compassion.

The show reminds us that we don't heal alone. Social support is one of the strongest protective factors against anxiety, depression, and burnout. Just like Rumi's friends, we need safe spaces where we're seen and accepted.

Therapy can serve as a safe and supportive space to process the parts of yourself you were taught to hide.

You are not broken.
You are a work in progress, becoming more whole each day.

From, The Calming Ark

We’re a little late in the game but we had some reflections we couldn’t not share! Behind the fantasy and music in Netfl...
25/09/2025

We’re a little late in the game but we had some reflections we couldn’t not share! Behind the fantasy and music in Netflix’s “KPop Demon Hunters”, the story mirrors certain aspects our inner worlds. Rumi’s journey is more than fighting demons - it’s about facing the parts of ourselves we often hide.

Shame grows in silence, shame wants to keep parts of ourselves hidden. When we suppress parts of who we are, we carry a heavy burden of “masking” these parts of us. Over time, this drains our energy and distances us from authenticity.

But healing begins when we practice radical acceptance which is the practice of accepting reality as it is, even when it’s painful or difficult, without judgement, resistance, or wishing it were different. This doesn’t mean we have to like every part of ourselves. Rather, it means choosing to see all our “light and shadow” as worthy of compassion.

The show reminds us that we don’t heal alone. Social support is one of the strongest protective factors against anxiety, depression, and burnout. Just like Rumi’s friends, we need safe spaces where we’re seen and accepted.

Therapy can serve as a safe and supportive space to process the parts of yourself you were taught to hide.

You are not broken.
You are a work in progress, becoming more whole each day.

From,
The Calming Ark

Emotional safety is not something we stumble into, rather, it’s something we intentionally build. One step at a time.If ...
25/07/2025

Emotional safety is not something we stumble into, rather, it’s something we intentionally build. One step at a time.

If you’ve grown up in an environment where emotions were invalidated or dismissed, your nervous system learns to stay alert, guarded, or disconnected to protect you from feeling hurt. It’s probably “safer” to not feel or be who you are.

But emotional safety is a practice that you can engage in.

It teaches your body that it’s safe now, you’re allowed to feel, to exist, to speak.

Emotional safety grows when we feel seen, soothed, and supported. And the good news is, you can build emotional safety for yourself!

Start by:
1. Noticing your internal world with curiosity, not shame.
2. Speak to yourself kindly, especially when you’re hurting.
3. Set gentle boundaries that honour our nervous system.
4. Surround yourself with people who want the best for you, and can do so in a non-judgemental way.
5. Choose intentional responding over reacting.
6. Practice rituals and build habits that anchor safety in the body.

Curiosity, kindness, acceptance and non-judgemental approaches make space for all our emotions, not just the comfortable ones.

Healing is about feeling safe enough to be fully present within you.

Embark on your journey towards building emotional safety for yourself, and others today.

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