15/11/2025
... you grew up following the patterns of others ...
parents, grandparents, teachers, partners ... their words echo still:
“You can’t do that… that’s not right… it’ll be as I say…
what will the neighbors think?” ... so many voices, layering over your own ... so many rules about how to be ...what to wear ...
what to believe ...
how to love ...
how to live ... but stop for a moment ... breathe ... what kind of coffee do you drink? ... the one that warms your soul,
or the one your mother used to pour? ... how do you like your toast ...
soft, or turned into that perfect golden crispy? ... or are they still served the way your grandmother made them,
because somewhere along the way,
you forgot to ask yourself what you like? ... how many such patterns still live in you ...
softly, quietly, out of habit? ... and are they really yours?.. do they still make your heart smile? ...if not… change them ... gently ... lovingly ... pour your coffee your way ... dress for your own joy ... choose the flavor of your life like it’s your favorite song ... begin with gratitude ...
for those who shaped you,
for everything they taught you,
and for the courage it took to see beyond their patterns ... because today, you are free
to become the author of your own design ...🪄🫶
~Empower…Transform…Shine your Light🌟