Tap to Transform - EFT Tapping & Life Coaching

19/03/2026

Sometimes the best therapy you need is out dog sledding with Alaskan huskies 💕

17/03/2026

And then… she appeared.

We had been patiently waiting for her while sitting round a campfire just 2 hours after going up north from Tromso.

On our very first night out chasing the Aurora Borealis on a Northern Lights tour, we were lucky enough to finally witness her magic.

The aurora began to light up the sky from one end to the other — and directly over our heads. Waves of colour rippled through the night — soft greens, glowing blues, hints of pink and purple — dancing across the vast Arctic sky.

It felt surreal. Mesmerising. Almost otherworldly.

Standing beneath the aurora brought a deep sense of expansiveness — the kind that makes you pause and realise how small, and yet how connected, we are to something much bigger.

I kept thinking about something our guide said:

“Don’t chase the Northern Lights based on the KP index alone. Instead, go searching for clear skies.”

And it struck me how true this is for life.

So often we chase outcomes.

But sometimes the real work is simply to create the right conditions.

Clear the noise.
Be where the skies are open.
Stay present and patient.

You can’t force the aurora — a natural phenomenon — to appear.

But when the skies are clear and the conditions are right…
magic often unfolds. ✨

Bucket List Item: Checked! ✨

10/03/2026

We started with a full day class for our March intake of EFT Level 2 Practitioner Training and I am so proud of the participants who came.

Those who attended are coaches, counsellors, and mental health advocates who want to enhance their sessions with clients by using a somatic-based tool like EFT tapping✨✨.

Through EFT tapping, we explored ways to regulate the nervous system, release emotional burdens, and shift old patterns. Students discovered meaningful insights after experiencing a drop in the intensity of their issues — making the learning truly experiential ✨

What participants finally understood...

It's easy to stay at the surface level of an issue, but real breakthroughs often happen when we go beneath the iceberg and work with the core issues behind the presenting problem.

An exhausting but fulfilling day of vulnerability, tapping, and real conversations. Hearts opened 💕as participants worked through some deep issues.

Although Level 2 focuses on developing skills to help others, participants first worked on themselves — which I believe makes them better practitioners 🙂

Grateful to witness these participants expanding their skills and confidence. It’s wonderful to see their commitment to supporting others in meaningful ways. Thank you for allowing me to be part of your journey 🙏

If you are interested in our next class, DM “Training”. I’d be happy to share the dates and details 🙂

08/03/2026

To the woman who strives, who dares to grow, and who carries the quiet determination to create change — I see you.

I see the effort behind the scenes.

The moments you question yourself but keep going anyway.

The courage it takes to break old patterns and choose a different path.

Being a change maker isn’t always visible.

Often, it’s the inner work — healing, learning, and choosing to love yourself unconditionally again and again.

Today, we celebrate you.

Your strength.
Your heart.
Your commitment to becoming more of who you truly are.

Tap into Your Best Self!

Happy International Women’s Day. 🌸

xx Evelyn

01/03/2026

You can understand what you went through in the past....
but still feel tight in your chest.

Restless at night.

On edge for no clear reason.

If reassurance is your main tool, calm can feel fragile.

You soothe yourself.
You feel better.
Then something small happens —
and your system spikes again.

That’s not failure.

That’s unfinished survival energy.

However, when your body truly registers safety:
Shoulders drop without effort.
Breathing deepens on its own.
Energy steadies.
Hyper-alertness softens.
You stop waiting for impact.

Here's what you need to know...

You’re not bad at healing.
It's because your physiology hasn’t completed the resolution cycle.
And it can.

That’s why somatic-based practices — like EFT tapping — can help with nervous system regulation.

They work where reassurance can’t reach.

✨Regulation is built through repetition.

By consistently applying EFT tapping, your nervous system learns: It’s safe to stand down.

Consistency is what turns moments of calm into lasting regulation.

If you'd like assistance with regulating your nervous system, do reach out. DM "Calm" to ask about 1:1 personal sessions.

26/02/2026

✨Tap to calm your anxiety.
✨Tap to let go of your stress.
✨Tap to resolve the past.
✨Tap to rewire the brain.

EFT Tapping (Emotional Freedom Techniques) — with transformation at your fingertips 🙌.

In my last EFT Tapping Level 1 Foundation Class, participants discovered
- how to tap on acupressure points and to regulate your emotions
- how to tap for various situations (emotional hurt, physical pain, etc.)
- how to calm the nervous system
- work with real issues (not just surface stress),
- shifts that come from within — not from forced reframes.

✨Especially valuable for Coaches, Therapists, Counsellors, and Mental Health Practitioners who want to learn a practical, somatic-based and proven tool to support clients more effectively✨.

Or just about anyone who wants to learn a self-help tool for mental and emotional well-being 💕.

Curriculum follows requirements by EFT International.

If you’re ready to experience transformation at your fingertips 🙌,

Check bio link or DM me “TAP” for details of the next EFT Tapping Level 1 Foundation Class 😀

24/02/2026

Feeling stuck in the same challenging patterns over and over again — no matter how much inner work you’ve done?

For years, Jenny* struggled with severe anxiety. Her heart would race at the slightest trigger, and eventually it began to affect her ability to work. Through therapy, she realised much of it stemmed from childhood experiences.

But here’s what frustrated her most:
Even with awareness and guidance, she couldn’t connect to the part of her that was holding the trauma. She understood her story intellectually — yet emotionally, it felt out of reach.

Exhausted and discouraged, Jenny decided to explore a different approach — one that looked at what might be blocking her breakthrough.

When we began working together, something surprising and important surfaced. We found out that Jenny had an internalised mental model of her inner child. In her mind’s eye, she saw the inner child as being trapped. When guided to explore more, Jenny saw that the inner child child was trapped in a room that was inaccessible and that was suspended in time.

And here’s where it became significant.

What Jenny was describing wasn’t just a metaphor.

It reflected a freeze response.

When the nervous system perceives something as overwhelming and inescapable, it can shift into freeze — a state of shutdown, immobility, and disconnection. It’s a protective response. The body’s way of saying, “This is too much.”

Her inner child wasn’t avoiding connection.

She was frozen.

We all carry mental models — internal pictures that shape how we experience ourselves and the world. They are formed by past experiences and reinforced by unconscious beliefs.

If a part of you feels locked away in a sealed room, suspended in time, healing can feel impossible.

No wonder Jenny felt that she wasn't making much headway despite having the awareness that her issues were rooted in the past.

The work wasn’t about forcing the door open.

Rather it was about gently updating the internal model — helping her nervous system feel safe enough to thaw from freeze, and creating a new representation where connection was possible.

Only then could real breakthroughs begin.

Sometimes the pattern isn’t resistance.

Sometimes it’s protection.

And healing begins when we honour that — and slowly create safety for movement again.

Question: In what ways has your nervous system been protecting you and shielding you from?

xx Evelyn

P.S. If you need help with calming your nervous system into safety, DM me to ask about 1:1 sessions.



*Not her real name

24/02/2026

I used to have mistaken ideas about self-love. And I had to unlearn what I thought I knew. Here are 4 of the things I've come to embrace about self-love...click over below...

Unlearning what culture, conditioning, and childhood got wrong about loving yourself

20/02/2026

2026 is the Year of the Fire Horse.

In Chinese metaphysics, the Horse is fast, spirited, independent.
Add the fire element — and everything amplifies.

Fire Horse energy is bold. Driven. Restless. Passionate.
It wants movement. Momentum. Freedom.

But here’s what I’ve already learned working with high-achievers:
Ambition without regulation becomes anxiety.
Passion without grounding becomes burnout.
Drive without safety becomes self-pressure.

And as I've just described, set against the year of the Fire Horse, energy gets amplified.

This year is about expanding your capacity to hold more — without dysregulating your body.

Can you move fast and stay regulated?
Can you pursue boldly and still feel safe inside?

That’s the real question.

In a Fire Horse year, nervous system regulation isn’t optional.
It’s your anchor.

Breathe. Ground. Apply tapping to regulate your nervous system.

Center yourself from a regulated space — not survival mode.

17/02/2026

在这新的2026马年，送你8只🐴
㊗️马到功成
㊗️马到吉祥
㊗️马上暴富
㊗️马上有福
㊗️马年安康
㊗️马年顺心
㊗️马年大运
㊗️马年有余!

Happy Chinese New Year, everyone!

Wishing you another year of abundance - great health, love, success and prosperity!

13/02/2026

Today is Self-Love Day (Feb 13) — the day before Valentine’s Day.

It’s a gentle reminder that loving ourselves isn’t selfish… it’s foundational.

When we learn to love ourselves first, we expand our capacity to love others more deeply, more securely, and more freely.

So how might you choose to spend Feb 13?

Maybe it’s speaking to yourself with kindness.
Maybe it’s resting without guilt.
Maybe it’s setting a boundary.
Maybe it’s simply placing your hand on your heart and saying, “I am enough.”

Affirm yourself today. 💛

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11/02/2026

February is the month of love, including Self-Love 😍

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