12/01/2026
Some seasons of grief are heavier than others.
The *first birthday.
The *first wedding anniversary.
The *first holiday.
The *first death anniversary.
These moments can reopen the ache of missing the one who felt like home.
If this year holds your first special occasions without your spouse, please know this:
Nothing is wrong with you for feeling the way you do.
Tears, silence, memories, even moments of numbness—all of it belongs.
Be gentle with your heart.
Say their name.
Honor the love you shared.
Rest when you need to.
And remember—you are not walking this road alone.
To every widow or widower standing in a “first” today, this week, this year:
We see you. We hold space for you.
And we are sending you love, strength, and quiet comfort. 🤍