03/07/2020
Reflective writing
1. Have a deep talk with your child
2. Lead to meaningful behavior
3. What can we do to increase the child's sense of belonging and value?
The child misunderstood that adults can cope with him when he is busy, which means that he is a person worthy of care and interest. When we respond with accusations, scolding, orders, impacts, threats, etc., it will only make the child feel that he is not cared for, has no value, and will not give him any positive energy to improve his behavior. What can we do to increase the child's sense of belonging and value?
https://www.cw.com.tw/article/5098864?rec=i2i&from_id=5100065&from_index=1
Posted by Zoe
孩子誤以為,大人很忙的時候還能回應他,就代表他是一個值得被在乎、有價值的人。當我們用指責、打罵、命令、處罰、威脅等方式來應對時,只會令孩子更覺得自己不被在乎、沒有價值,不會給予他任何正向能量來改善行為...