08/08/2025
To my Healthcare Professionals, I worked with a patient whose father was nearing the end of his life, suffering from failing organs and multiple wounds. His daughter frequently sent him back to the hospital, to the point where he was placed under observation rather than being admitted.
She confided in me that she knew he was dying, but she wasn’t ready to say goodbye. She expressed that, while he needed her, she also needed him.
Additionally, she shared her fear of becoming homeless once his Medicare and Medicaid benefits ceased after his passing. As his full-time caregiver, supported by state resources, she faced the reality that the financial assistance would stop when he died, and she would need to find a job quickly. However, she felt overwhelmed by the thought of building a resume and attending interviews, as her father required 24-hour care.
In that moment, it was crucial for me to show compassion and understanding rather than tell her there was nothing more we could do. Judging her or suggesting she find a job was not the solution; her priority was caring for her family, and my priority was to provide compassion.