04/09/2026
She was not difficult. She was in perimenopause.
The woman who used to be unshakeable in meetings but now seems scattered is not losing her edge. Her estrogen is fluctuating and affecting her brain in ways she has never experienced.
The one who snapped at a colleague for the first time in ten years is not suddenly hard to work with. Her progesterone dropped and took her natural stress buffer with it.
The top performer gaining weight, is not letting herself go. Her cortisol is driving insulin resistance, and her metabolism has fundamentally changed.
The one calling in sick more is not uncommitted. She was up at 3 AM, drenched in sweat for the fourth night in a row.
The leader who quietly resigned was not looking for something better. She was exhausted from performing at the highest level while her body was in a full transition with zero support.
None of these women were the problem.
The lack of understanding was the problem.
When workplaces learn to recognize what perimenopause and menopause actually look like, not as personal failings but as a real physiological transition, everything changes.
The conversations change. The retention changes. The culture changes.
And the women who were silently considering leaving start choosing to stay.
No fads. Just facts.