03/08/2026
One of the first flowers of spring is the Narcissist, known by most as Daffodil. A pretty little thing filled with poison inside. With the label narcissist being used so often, I thought weād get to its roots today as my Narcissist flowers are blooming all over the yard. There is always a story....
The flower was used by the ancients medicinally, very carefully, as it is also a POISON and creates a numbing effect (Narcs tend to be numb to the pain of others). The name stems from the Greek word for intoxicant (NARCOTIC) and comes from the character in Greek myth known by the same name, Narcissus. It is this myth that the term Narcissist comes from as well as the name of the diagnosis, Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Narcissus was a boy born of a nymph and a river god. He was beautiful to look upon, with bright yellow hair. He left a trail of broken hearts behind him. He loved no one, but girls and boys and men and women adored him. One day, in his teen years, he saw his reflection in a pool of water and fell in love with himself. He could not look away. He wasted away and died there obsessing over himself. The gods took pity on him and allowed him to live eternally as the Narcissus flower (daffodil) which was born where he lay, by the pool of water. One of the hearts he broke belonged to the nymph, Echo. She had been cursed by Hera so that she could only ever repeat the last couple of words spoken to her. Echo fell for Narcissus in the forest where she was hiding and could only stand by and watch as he fell in love with himself. She was so devastated by his lack of love that she crept away to a cave and withered away herself. All that remains now is her voice, repeating what was just saidā¦
If youāve ever had any sort of relationship with someone who falls under the label, you know the damage they can do. How they seem to be filled with a poison that slowly kills your spirit, your nervous system, and if you stay long enough, can make you physically ill. You wither away, like Echo.
The daffodil is a good reminder that toxic things can come in pretty little packages.