04/16/2026
I had an encounter this week that left me feeling a little off.
Whenever that happens, I take some time to look at my own role in it. I do this so I can stay open to the ways I’m still growing and keep showing up as the person I want to be.
This interaction uncovered a pattern I’ve carried since childhood. One that keeps showing up. And it gave me the chance to choose to let it go and update my operating system.
Which brought me to a conversation with a client on Monday.
She was feeling bad because we were revisiting a pattern we’d worked on before. She asked if I ever have to do the same in my own life.
I told her: we’re all works in progress.
Some patterns are stronger than others and need to be revisited more than once.
That doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong.
That’s actually the beauty of it. We get to keep choosing how we want to show up, and whether we want to do the work. 💙