10/31/2025
I help people find senior communities so I talk to a lot of people about the journey of aging. It is clear that most people hope to be what we call Super Agers, people who live a long time with a high quality of life.
So what type of person is a Super Ager? They’re not easily categorized. Super Agers come from many different backgrounds, geographies, and economic situations. But one thing they almost always have in common is how socially active they are. Not only do they invest time in building strong relationships, but they seek out ways to meet and talk with new people. They make a conscious effort to stay engaged and connected with others.
We all hope to be these Super Agers when we get older, but it takes intention and effort. My father was always very good at finding groups to join whether it was Bridge groups or golf foursomes, and managed to find new groups when his friends moved away. But even he experienced isolation at eventually when it started getting harder to get around. Moving to a senior community gave him the chance to engage with others again the way he had in the past.
A rich social life in our later years doesn’t come from luck—it comes from vigilance. We have to keep showing up, reaching out, and saying yes to new experiences. The more intentional we are about staying connected, the more likely we are to age with vitality and purpose.
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