Sade Ferrier, LMFT

Sade Ferrier, LMFT A welcoming atmosphere for intimate concerns, including s*xual pain, mismatched desire, and communication issues.

It's not the kind of thing you want to talk about in your circle of friends. You may feel embarrassment, even shame, won...
04/20/2026

It's not the kind of thing you want to talk about in your circle of friends. You may feel embarrassment, even shame, wondering "is this normal?"
But being months - even years - into your marriage without in*******se does not mean that you are assigned to this fate forever. This just may not me an area of concern that you can tackle alone.
Read more about how s*x therapy can help by clicking "read blog" at the link in my bio.

Not every honeymoon is filled with hours of passionate lo******ng. For some couples, the inability to have s*x for the f...
04/10/2026

Not every honeymoon is filled with hours of passionate lo******ng. For some couples, the inability to have s*x for the first time comes as a surprise.
Maybe you saved s*x for marriage or were abstinent for a period of time. You got used to saying "no" to arousal and interest, fully looking forward to enjoying each other on the other side of "I do."
So what do you do when months or years pass, and the problem still persists?
It is a lonely feeling. Isolating. You listen to friends and family excitedly ask about how you're enjoying marriage, and you try to force a smile, knowing that this isn't something you can talk about.
This is where s*x therapy comes in.
To learn more about how the process of s*x therapy can help, click "read blog" at the link in my bio. Or, if you already know that you need support and you're ready to dive in, schedule a phone consult.
You are not alone and this does not have to be your reality forever.

04/08/2026

It's called anorgasmia, and it's the kind of thing that gets easily overlooked or brushed under the rug.
But if you've been intimate with your significant other and have had difficult reaching climax for six months or more, it is time to take the next step. This isn't the kind of thing that can be resolved just by using new toys or "trying harder."
Visit the link in my bio to schedule a 15-minute consultation call for individual or couples therapy.
Or, for more casual learning, you can find articles and podcast episodes on my website, myintimacytherapist.com

If you are experiencing anorgasmia, you've likely put this on the backburner, explaining away your symptoms."Yes, but I ...
04/06/2026

If you are experiencing anorgasmia, you've likely put this on the backburner, explaining away your symptoms.
"Yes, but I was just tired," or "yeah, but maybe I just don't have those anymore."
Anorgasmia could be an indicator of an underlying condition - or a sign that your intimate life just needs a little TLC.
It's time to schedule your first s*x therapy appointment, girl. Let's talk about what you'll need emotionally, relationally, mentally, or physically to add to your experience of intimacy.
☀️Schedule a 15-minute phone or video consult at the link in my bio!

Mind-reading happens when we expect our spouse to already know what we want, and make interpretations about them based o...
03/30/2026

Mind-reading happens when we expect our spouse to already know what we want, and make interpretations about them based on whether or not they follow-through on those expectations.
When relationships lack warmth, are in a season of high stress, or are overall in a state of turmoil, it is MUCH more likely for expectations to go unmet - even if you felt you communicated your needs before.
But hear this: true love does not mean that your spouse will always know what you want, or always understand how to show up for you. True love does not magically grant omniscience.
Love is patient, kind. Love communicates. Love works to identify barriers, and love is persistent in working together to move those barriers.
So, look at your pattern. Do you and your spouse do your best to communicate - and offer grace and resolution for the times you drop the ball? If so, you're on the right track! Be careful about making interpretations in the middle of your frustration. Get curious, talk, work together.
Is your pattern one where communication is missed more often than not, and you are struggling to find evidence that your spouse *does love and prioritize you? In this case, there are likely more complex layers at play. Couples therapy will be a helpful next step to break your pattern and prevent further injury to trust or warmth.
I encourage you to reframe the expectation that your spouse should always know or understand you. Instead, look to your overall dynamic.
✅️ Need support? Visit the link in my bio to schedule a consultation for individual or couples therapy in Georgia

03/25/2026

With Spring comes new air, new life, new energy
Your relationship needs some of the same! In this week's episode of the My Intimacy Therapist Podcast, I chat about simple ways that you can energize your romantic connection.
✅️ Tune in to episode 130 if the My Intimacy Therapist Podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts!

03/23/2026

I started the My Intimacy Therapist Podcast so that women who are not in therapy (yet) could have access to insight that they would otherwise not hear.
Tips for how to communicate about intimacy.
Information on your s*xual response cycle.
Fun ideas to set the spark at home.
It has been 5 years now (woah!!)

03/18/2026

You may be under the impression that pleasure during intimacy looks one way: the eyes rolling, the insatiable craving, the "all night long" kind of feel.
But thankfully, intimacy is much more colorful than that. There are many different ways to express and experience your s*x drive. And, there are many different factors that can influence your experience of pleasure. So comparing to another person's body is just....not fair to you.
I'd encourage you to get curious about your s3x drive without immediately jumping to a label of "something is wrong with me" or "I am broken." Ask yourself, "why am I feeling this way?"
Could it be that birth control is affecting the intensity of your pleasure? What about a lack of sleep? Have you been emotionally disconnected from your spouse lately? Or maybe certain types of touch are just...not your vibe (even if he is really into it).
Get curious, seek to understand. And if you need help knowing where to start, s*x therapy (whether individually or as a couple) is a great place to organize your thoughts and create a plan for change.
✅️Want that support? Visit the link in my bio to schedule a 15-minute chat. Let's talk about it

03/17/2026

Can you relate to the odd feeling of adapting to something good after years (or decades) of something chaotic?

03/12/2026

Assumptions may have some basis in your history, but they also shut down any possibility for a different outcome.
I chat about it in this week's podcast episode (129).
Curious...would you be open to a new, different, more desirable outcome?

03/11/2026

It's all so...uncomfortable.
Trying to have a conversation where you know you'll disagree with each other. Speaking up, lovingly - instead of shutting down or lashing out. Trying to trust again after a major betrayal. Hoping for the spark of romance to reignite after years of stagnancy.
Deeply uncomfortable. Painful, even.
And yet....
The deepest intimacy...the kind where you feel known, truly...is on the other side of your decision to confront the discomfort. To do something different - in hopes that you'll get something different.
Quiet bravery. Intense vulnerability.
What would happen if you confront your discomfort? What will happen if you don't?
✅️ Listen to episode 129 of the My Intimacy Therapist Podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts

03/10/2026

It seems like he *only wants it....and she *never wants it.
Have you and your spouse gotten caught up in this dynamic?

In either case, the goal is the same: both spouses want true intimacy. But what do you do when your intimacy cup is filled in different ways?
Visit myintimacytherapist.com (or click the link in my bio) to read more on the blog

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