12/26/2025
Holiday food rules feel out of control? Here are 4 dietitian-approved ✅ ways to help your family enjoy the season without food battles, guilt, or power struggles.
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1️⃣ Ditch the labels
Stop calling foods “good” or “bad.” When foods are labeled this way, kids start to see themselves as “good” or “bad” for what they eat, which fuels shame instead of trust.
2️⃣ Enjoy without guilt
You and your child are allowed to enjoy holiday treats. Removing guilt and “shoulds” around food actually supports more attuned eating and reduces sneaking or secret eating.
3️⃣ Skip the restriction
Strict food rules often backfire, leading to obsessing over treats, overeating when they’re available, and more power struggles. Focus on balance: pair fun foods with meals and snacks that offer staying power (protein, fats, fiber) instead of banning sweets.
4️⃣ Serve lots of options
Offer a variety of familiar foods, fun holiday treats, and nutrient-dense options at the same time. This structure helps kids learn to self-regulate, explore new foods, and still meet their nutrition needs.
🎄 This season, aim for connection over perfection: enjoy the cookie, model a relaxed attitude around food, and protect your child’s long-term relationship with eating.
Follow for realistic family nutrition tips, feeding therapy-informed strategies, and free resources to make mealtimes easier! Happy holidays! 💙