12/28/2025
As 2025 comes to a close, we’re continuing to share some of the stories that were read and reflected on by many in our community this year.
This story was shared by James Axiotis, who was adopted from Athens, Greece. It was originally shared earlier this year. We can see how much this story connected with so many!
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I was born in Athens, Greece, in June 1963 to an u***d mother named Georgia Korakis. On paper, I was deemed “illegitimate.” I was simply a baby boy who arrived in the wrong era for a woman to raise a child alone. After a week in the hospital, my mother handed me over to the authorities. At the time, Greece did not support single mothers. There was no safety net, no housing, no real path for a woman like her to keep a child like me.
Instead, there was a system. Looking back now, we know it became one of the largest adoption scandals of its time. Between the late 1950s and 1960s, thousands of Greek children were sent abroad, many to the United States. The numbers vary, but estimates often range from 5,000 to 7,000. I am one of those children.
For the first 16 months of my life, I was in care—unnamed, in an orphanage and foster care—waiting. In 1964, I was adopted by Greek American parents who brought me to Southern California. They gave me a name, a home, and a life I could never have imagined from that hospital ward in Athens.
I grew up in Granada Hills, in the San Fernando Valley, with a backyard, a pool, a dog, and two loving parents who did their best, even through their own struggles. I was raised Greek in all the ways that matter: faith, food, family, and a healthy dose of guilt and humor. But I was also raised American, with opportunity and freedom I never take for granted.
At 13, I stumbled onto a TV set as an extra in an ABC Afterschool Special, and something sparked. That one experience turned into a 40-year career in television and film production. I’ve worked my way up from production assistant to producer, served two terms on the National Board of the Producers Guild of America, and am a member of the Television Academy and BAFTA’s Academy Circle. None of that happens if I’m not adopted. None of it.
I am deeply pro-adoption because I am living proof of how transformative it can be. My adoption took me from an uncertain beginning in Athens to a life in Los Angeles that allowed me to build a career, raise three daughters, and tell stories for a living.
I recognize that not every adoptee feels that way. Adoption is complicated. It carries grief, loss, identity questions, and, in my case, a whole country’s painful history. I honor that complexity. I respect every adoptee’s experience, especially those whose stories look very different from mine.
Like many of us, I searched. I did DNA testing, hired a genealogist, chased leads, and pulled every thread I could find. I never found my father. I never found my mother either, beyond her name: Georgia Korakis. Today, based on what I’ve learned, I believe she has passed away. I never got to go back, look her in the eyes, and say the words that sit in my heart every day: “Thank you. You saved my life.”
So I’m doing the next best thing I know how to do: I’m telling her story. I’m currently developing a short film called Georgia, based on the true event of my mother going to court to say goodbye to me before I was released for adoption. I was a baby. I remember none of it. But I have carried the weight of that moment my whole life.
The film is set against the backdrop of the Greek adoption scandal of the late ’50s and ’60s, when vulnerable mothers were pushed into impossible decisions and children were shipped abroad, often without full consent or transparency. Georgia is my way of honoring the woman who chose life for me, even at great personal cost. It is also my way of shining a light on a chapter of history that affected thousands of us and is only now starting to be fully acknowledged.
I share my story here, with I’m Adopted, because this community understands the layers. We know what it means to be both grateful and grieving, both “chosen” and carrying questions that may never be answered. We hold the tension between loving our adoptive families and wondering about our first families. We know what it is to live between worlds.
I want to say this to my fellow adoptees around the world: Your story matters. Your questions are valid. Your gratitude, your anger, your confusion, your peace—all of it belongs. There is no one “right” adoption narrative. There is only your truth and the courage to live it.
My truth is this: Adoption changed my life in beautiful ways. I was rescued from a situation that could have ended very differently. I was given loving parents, a home, a craft I adore, and three daughters who are my heart. And yet, at the center of all that blessing is a quiet, unseen woman named Georgia, who walked into a courtroom in Athens in 1964 and did the hardest thing a mother can do.
I couldn’t find her to thank her. So I will spend the rest of my life making sure her sacrifice was not in vain, by telling the story of children like me and mothers like her.
- James Axiotis (Adopted from Athens, Greece, now living in the East Coast, USA)