03/31/2026
16 years in…
Here’s what I had to unlearn:
Pressure used to be a general idea to me
More pressure, deeper work, better results
Now I know…
pressure is something much more specific
I wasn’t forceful
but I was impatient
I wanted results faster
And I didn’t like the idea that someone might feel worse before they felt better
I still don’t love that feeling
but I understand it differently now
There wasn’t one moment
It was time
The biggest shift?
I stopped trying to make something happen
The body doesn’t respond to being rushed
It responds when you actually listen