Melody Wright, Somatic Psychotherapy

Melody Wright, Somatic Psychotherapy Somatic Psychotherapist and Founder of Life by Design Therapy. Offering therapy and mental health education for all.

The week after the holidays always feels strangely quiet.The decorations are still out, the house looks lived-in, and ye...
12/29/2025

The week after the holidays always feels strangely quiet.
The decorations are still out, the house looks lived-in, and yet… something feels different.

Heavier. Slower. A little emptier.

You might notice yourself moving through the days with less energy, less motivation, or less clarity than you expected heading into the new year. And it’s easy to wonder:

“Why do I feel this way?”

Here’s the part we often forget…your body has been through a lot.

❄️ Weeks of overstimulation catch up with you.
The noise, the gatherings, the rushing, and the emotional load. Your nervous system finally has space to relax, and that “come down” can feel like a slump.

❄️ The end of the holidays can stir up quiet grief.
Not in the way we think about grief, but sometimes it’s the soft ache of noticing who’s missing, what’s changed, or the gap between what you hoped for and what actually happened.

❄️ The pressure to “start fresh” hits before your system is ready.
The world pushes resolutions, goals, and big energy. But your body might still be tired. It needs rest before it can move forward.

❄️ Your rhythms are out of sync.
Sleep, meals, movement…everything shifts during the holidays. And your mood reflects those changes more than you might realize.

So if you’re not bursting into January with motivation… that’s okay.
You’re not doing anything wrong. Your body is just recalibrating after holding so much.

It’s okay to:
Give yourself space to move slowly.
Let your nervous system settle.

And I want to remind you that honoring your body is one of the most compassionate ways to begin a new year.

If you want support finding your footing again, our latest blog breaks this down in a gentle, grounding way.

💛 Link in bio to read more.

Every year, right after the holidays, I start to hear the same kinds of things from the clients I work with.They come in...
12/26/2025

Every year, right after the holidays, I start to hear the same kinds of things from the clients I work with.

They come into the session and say,
“I don’t know what’s wrong with me.”
“I thought I’d feel motivated by now.”
“I feel heavy… tired… disconnected.”

And I always remind them:
Nothing is wrong. This is your body coming back online after a busy season.

For weeks, people move through the holidays on adrenaline — managing plans, emotions, family patterns, routines shifting, trying to hold everything together. And when January arrives, everything gets quiet enough for the body to finally feel the weight of it.

Sometimes it’s grief.
Sometimes it’s burnout.
Sometimes it’s the pressure to “start fresh” when their nervous system is still exhausted.

And almost always, their routines have been completely thrown off, which makes everything feel harder.

So when clients tell me they feel low, slow, or overwhelmed, I gently remind them:

You’re not behind.
You’re not failing.
Your body is recalibrating.

Take a deep breath and give yourself:

✔️ Permission to move slowly
✔️ Space to rest and settle
✔️ Grace for what you’re feeling
✔️ Gentle routines that help you reset

If this is where you find yourself, too, you’re in good company, so many people feel this way in January.

And if you want support finding your footing again, therapy can give you a grounded space to process what the holidays brought up, rebuild your rhythm, and ease into the new year with intention.

💛 When you’re ready, we’re here to support you.

Happy Holidays from our team to you! We hope this season brings you moments of rest, connection, and the kind of calm th...
12/25/2025

Happy Holidays from our team to you!

We hope this season brings you moments of rest, connection, and the kind of calm that reminds your nervous system it’s safe to slow down.

Thank you for being part of our community.

If being around family feels draining, tense, or emotionally layered, your body is responding to something you may not b...
12/24/2025

If being around family feels draining, tense, or emotionally layered, your body is responding to something you may not be aware of.

The holidays can activate old patterns: the parts of you that had to stay quiet, manage emotions, keep the peace, or shrink to feel accepted. When those memories and dynamics resurface, your nervous system notices.

Feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, guarded, or simply exhausted around certain relationships is not a flaw in you. It’s often a sign of past relational wounds, unmet needs, or a body that’s learned to brace in order to feel safe.

You are allowed to honor what you need this season, whether that looks like rest, space, shorter visits, firmer boundaries, or creating new traditions that feel more supportive. And you are also allowed to hold grief for what you wish your family could be, while caring for the version of you that exists now.

I’m wishing you a holiday that is gentle on your nervous system, kind to your emotional history, and rooted in connection that feels safe and mutual, whether that connection comes from family, friendship, community, or within yourself.

Save this for the moments that feel heavy.
And if you want support navigating complicated family dynamics, therapy can offer the space and clarity you deserve.
Link in bio.

During the holidays, I’ve learned that my body needs as much care as my schedule, my family, and all the moving pieces o...
12/23/2025

During the holidays, I’ve learned that my body needs as much care as my schedule, my family, and all the moving pieces of the season.

So this year, I’m honoring my body in simple, grounding ways, and I invite you to try them with me:

✨ I’m pausing throughout the day to check in with myself, noticing my breath, my tension, and what my body is asking for.

✨ I’m creating small rhythms that help me feel steady, even when plans get busy; consistent meals, a slow morning, a short walk outside.

✨ I’m letting my boundaries be body-led by paying attention to when I feel overstimulated, tired, or stretched too thin.

✨ And I’m making space for quiet moments… the kind that let my nervous system settle and help me come back home to myself.

If your body has been whispering (or shouting) for a little more care this season, this is your reminder that you’re allowed to slow down.

You’re allowed to honor what you need, gently, intentionally, and without guilt. 💛

The holidays always bring a mix of emotions for me: joy, nostalgia, stress, excitement, and sometimes overwhelm.I’ve lea...
12/19/2025

The holidays always bring a mix of emotions for me: joy, nostalgia, stress, excitement, and sometimes overwhelm.

I’ve learned that when I try to push through everything without pausing, I end up feeling disconnected from myself.

These are the gentle reminders I come back to every year.

They help me stay grounded, honor my limits, and choose the kinds of connections that actually feel nourishing.

If you’re moving through a lot this season, too, I completely understand.

I want you to know that it’s okay to slow down, it’s okay to set boundaries, and it’s more than okay to take care of your mental health.

If you need support as you move into the new year, therapy can be a grounding place to land. 💛

If you’ve been thinking about starting therapy, this is your gentle reminder that now is the perfect time to start the y...
12/18/2025

If you’ve been thinking about starting therapy, this is your gentle reminder that now is the perfect time to start the year off right with support, clarity, and care for your mental health.

For a limited time, we’re offering $40 off your therapy sessions for your first 4 months when you book a free consultation by 12/31.
This discount is our way of making therapy more accessible as you move into the new year with intention and steadiness.

Here’s what your savings can look like:

✨ 1 month of therapy → $125 saved
✨ 2 months → $250 saved
✨ 3 months → $375 saved
✨ 4 months → $500 total savings

We want this to be the year you feel supported — not overwhelmed.

How to claim your discount:

Book a free phone consultation with our Client Care Coordinator by 12/31 (link in bio).

Mention the promotion when scheduling.

Begin therapy with one of our clinicians.

Receive $40 off each session for your first 4 months of therapy.

If you’re ready to start the year off right — grounded, supported, and moving toward the changes you want to make — we’re here to walk that path with you.

💛 Book your consultation today.

Every year, it sneaks up on you. One moment you’re lighting a candle or hanging the first ornament, and the next, your m...
12/16/2025

Every year, it sneaks up on you. One moment you’re lighting a candle or hanging the first ornament, and the next, your mind is already spinning with the gifts to buy, people to please, and plans to finalize.

You tell yourself you’ll slow down after all the boxes are checked on your list, but “after” never seems to come.

You want to feel present, grateful, even, but underneath the to-do lists and family dynamics, something feels off. Maybe you’re holding grief that no one talks about.

Maybe you’re stretched thin trying to make things “special.” Or maybe you just feel disconnected from the joy everyone else seems to be having.

If that’s you, I want you to know it makes sense.

The holidays have a way of amplifying what’s already inside us, the love and nostalgia, yes, but also the exhaustion, loneliness, or ache for things to be different.

This year, instead of pushing through, what if you cared for yourself the way you care for everyone else?

So keeping the busy you in mind, here are ten gentle ways to tend to your mental health this season, and guess what, it’s not by doing more, but by coming home to yourself.

To keep reading the full blog, click the link in our bio!

If you’ve been thinking about starting therapy, this is your gentle reminder that now is the perfect time to start the y...
12/11/2025

If you’ve been thinking about starting therapy, this is your gentle reminder that now is the perfect time to start the year off right with support, clarity, and care for your mental health.

For a limited time, we’re offering $40 off your therapy sessions for your first 4 months when you book a free consultation by 12/31.
This discount is our way of making therapy more accessible as you move into the new year with intention and steadiness.

Here’s what your savings can look like:

✨ 1 month of therapy → $125 saved
✨ 2 months → $250 saved
✨ 3 months → $375 saved
✨ 4 months → $500 total savings

We want this to be the year you feel supported — not overwhelmed.

How to claim your discount:

1. Book a free phone consultation with our Client Care Coordinator by 12/31 (link in bio).

2. Mention the promotion when scheduling.

3. Begin therapy with one of our clinicians.

4. Receive $40 off each session for your first 4 months of therapy.

If you’re ready to start the year off right — grounded, supported, and moving toward the changes you want to make — we’re here to walk that path with you.

💛 Book your consultation today.

As a therapist, I’ve noticed something powerful in the way people talk to themselves.It’s rarely the big, obvious though...
12/05/2025

As a therapist, I’ve noticed something powerful in the way people talk to themselves.
It’s rarely the big, obvious thoughts that keep them stuck; it’s the quiet, everyday ones.

“I should be over this.”
“I’m too sensitive.”
“I just need to get it together.”

Those phrases might just seem like words, but your brain registers them as pressure, and that criticism tells your nervous system you’re not safe.

It keeps your body in a state of tension, even when your mind is trying to heal.

Reframing isn’t about pretending everything’s fine.

It’s about creating safety through language; speaking to yourself in a way your body can believe.

When you shift from “I need to fix this” to “I’m learning to care for myself,” your body begins to soften, and healing becomes possible.

Follow for more body-based tools and gentle reframes — and save this for the days your self-talk feels heavy. 💛

When every moment is filled with something, the next email, the next scroll, the next thought,  your body never truly re...
12/04/2025

When every moment is filled with something, the next email, the next scroll, the next thought, your body never truly resets.

It’s not just mental fatigue; it’s a physical response.

Your nervous system stays on high alert, bracing for the next demand before the last one even ends.

Over time, that constant activation leads to anxiety, tension, headaches, poor sleep, and eventually… burnout.

But slowing down isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s how your body finds balance again.

Pausing between tasks, stepping outside, or taking a few deep breaths aren’t small things; they’re signals to your nervous system that it’s safe to rest.

✨ At Life By Design Therapy™, we help you understand what your body is trying to tell you, and teach you how to regulate, reset, and move through life with more calm and clarity.

Visit the link in our bio to learn more about how somatic and holistic therapy can support your nervous system.

I spent 10+ years helping women heal… and still didn’t realize healing would feel this uncomfortable.Most high-achieving...
12/03/2025

I spent 10+ years helping women heal… and still didn’t realize healing would feel this uncomfortable.

Most high-achieving women think discomfort means something is wrong.

But in reality, it’s often the moment your body is finally safe enough to feel again.

And that’s the difference between living in survival mode… and living in alignment.

15 years ago, I was the woman who looked “put together,” but inside I was exhausted, anxious, and completely disconnected from myself.

I didn’t slow down.
I didn’t ask for help.
I didn’t take a break unless it was convenient.

I thought being busy made me valuable.
I thought being needed made me lovable.
I thought healing would feel calm and peaceful.

It wasn’t.

The reality is: healing was the most uncomfortable season of my life.

Then I discovered something that changed everything:

Your body doesn’t heal through insight.
It heals through sensation.

Through shaky hands.
Through tears that feel inconvenient.
Through a throat tight with words you’re finally ready to speak.
Through the guilt that rises when you set a boundary you’ve needed for years.

Once I understood that discomfort was the healing… my entire life shifted.

I implemented 3 simple practices:

1. I paused for 30 seconds each morning.
Not to meditate.
But to actually feel the weight of my body in the chair.
That was the first time I had “met” myself in years.

2. I named one sensation per day.
Tight chest.
Knots in stomach.
Sweaty hands.
My emotional vocabulary expanded because my body finally had a voice.

3. I stopped solving everything with my mind

I started tracking:
What energizes me?
What shuts me down?
What brings me peace?

The answers were always in my body, not my to-do list.

Within 90 days, I felt more grounded, confident, and clear than I had in a decade.

Here’s what this means for you:

If healing feels uncomfortable, it doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong.

It means you’re finally doing it.

It means your nervous system feels safe enough to release.

It means you’re becoming someone you’ve been waiting to meet.

The bottom line: Discomfort is not a sign to stop. It’s a sign you’re finally reconnecting with yourself.

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Hi, I’m Melody Wright, LMFT. I am the Founder of Life by Design Therapy and a Licensed Somatic Psychotherapist.

I enjoy working with adults and couples and I’m passionate about supporting clients in healing old wounds, connecting with their deepest desires and creating lasting change that has the potential to impact generations to come.

I also support therapists, coaches and entrepreneurs struggling to feel empowered around money and their practice. I utilize 18+ years worth of business ownership, tax and bookkeeping knowledge to support you in creating a business that brings you joy and abundance!

Meet Our Therapy Team Melody Wright, LMFT #107069 - Founder and Somatic Therapist Ashley Gregory, LMFT #110299 - Somatic Therapist Dr. Nia Saunders, PSY#31472 - Clinical Psychologist