Melody Wright, Somatic Psychotherapy

Melody Wright, Somatic Psychotherapy Somatic Psychotherapist and Founder of Life by Design Therapy. Offering therapy and mental health education for all.

I’ve noticed that when I’m having trouble focusing, it’s rarely just about distractions.It’s often a sign that my nervou...
02/04/2026

I’ve noticed that when I’m having trouble focusing, it’s rarely just about distractions.

It’s often a sign that my nervous system is overstimulated, overwhelmed, or simply needs a moment of care.

In my work (and in my own life), I’ve found that focus isn’t just a mental skill…it’s a whole-body experience.

When we feel safe, regulated, and grounded, focus becomes much more accessible.

If you’ve been struggling to stay present or productive lately, these 6 nervous-system-based tools can help bring you back into balance:

1. Use your senses to support focus – Gentle sensory input like warm tea, textured objects, or calming music can help anchor you in the moment.
2. Let your body give you feedback – Tune into sensations like tight shoulders or a racing heart. These cues tell you what your body needs like rest, movement, or just a pause.
3. Use grounding practices to become present– Try orienting to your environment, deep breathing, or pressing your feet into the floor. These small practices help your system settle.
4. Help your nervous system feel safe – Safety isn’t just emotional, it’s physical. Create a sense of safety through soft lighting, supportive people, or predictable routines.
5. Work with your natural rhythms – Notice when your energy is highest or lowest during the day and plan accordingly. Working with your body’s rhythm makes a huge difference.
6. Bring your attention back when it wanders– Focus will naturally drift. The goal isn’t to force it—it’s to gently guide it back without judgment, like inviting a child back to the task at hand.

If focus feels hard, you’re not broken. You may just need to tend to your nervous system first.

Which of these feels most supportive for where you’re at today?

In my work, I’ve noticed that many of us carry an "invisible tether" to our desks long after we’ve walked away.We might ...
02/02/2026

In my work, I’ve noticed that many of us carry an "invisible tether" to our desks long after we’ve walked away.

We might be physically present at the dinner table, but mentally, we are still triaging emails or rehearsing tomorrow’s presentation.

This mental "overflow" keeps the nervous system stuck in a state of high-alert, making it nearly impossible to actually recover.

I often see high achievers struggle with the idea of being "unproductive."

There is a common misconception that rest must be earned through a certain level of output.

But one thing I remind clients is that your nervous system doesn't need a reason to rest.

It just needs the opportunity to have that rest.
True disconnection is a skill that requires practice.

It’s about more than just time management

It’s about physiological regulation.

A few things to try this week:
✔️ Create a Physical Signal: Change your clothes, take a walk, or put your phone in a dedicated drawer.
✔️ Regulate with Rhythm: Use music to help your body physically decompress from the day’s pace.
✔️ Release the Guilt: Practice viewing "unproductive" time as a vital investment in your mental health.

By using rhythm to ground yourself or setting a clear "emotional finish line" for your tasks, you give your brain the permission it needs to stop scanning for problems and start settling into peace.

To learn more about how to actually disconnect after work hours, check my latest blog.

Are you processing your emotions or bypassing them?Emotions are your body and mind’s way of communicating important mess...
01/30/2026

Are you processing your emotions or bypassing them?

Emotions are your body and mind’s way of communicating important messages, but it can be easy to bypass them when they feel overwhelming or uncomfortable.

Processing emotions requires pausing, acknowledging, and listening to what they’re telling you, while bypassing often involves avoidance or numbing.

When you process your emotions, you give them the space they need to move through you and release them, leading to greater emotional clarity and resilience.

Take a moment and reflect on how do you tend to respond to your emotions?

Let us know in the comments or save this post as a reminder to practice emotional processing!

Difficult emotions aren’t here to overwhelm you, they’re actually there to communicate with you.Think of your emotions a...
01/29/2026

Difficult emotions aren’t here to overwhelm you, they’re actually there to communicate with you.

Think of your emotions as messengers, each one carrying important information about your needs, boundaries, or experiences.

Instead of pushing these emotions away, take a moment to listen.

What are they trying to tell you?

Processing emotions starts with noticing them, accepting their presence, and exploring their message with curiosity.

When you view emotions as messengers, you shift from resisting them to learning from them, and that’s where healing begins.

All in all navigating emotions can be challenging. To learn more about processing emotions, check out my blog - 5 Ways to Build a Strong Emotional Vocabulary & Why it Matters

The link to read is in my bio!

Emotional suppression can show up in subtle ways, like struggling to name what you’re feeling, feeling numb or disconnec...
01/28/2026

Emotional suppression can show up in subtle ways, like struggling to name what you’re feeling, feeling numb or disconnected, or even experiencing physical symptoms with no clear cause.

While it might feel like you’re protecting yourself, suppressing emotions often leads to overwhelm, stress, and disconnection from yourself and others.

Learning to expand your emotional vocabulary can help you recognize and process emotions instead of burying them.

It’s an amazing step toward healing, connection, and emotional freedom.

💛Remember, your emotions aren’t the problem, they’re the guide.

Which of these steps feels most helpful to you? Share your thoughts below!

Your body is a powerful ally in emotional healing.Emotions are meant to move through us, but when we avoid or suppress t...
01/27/2026

Your body is a powerful ally in emotional healing.

Emotions are meant to move through us, but when we avoid or suppress them, they can stay stuck, impacting our body, mind, and relationships.

That’s where somatic processing comes in.

When you listen to your body’s messages and create space for emotions to flow, you open the door to growth, resilience, and peace.

If you find it difficult, overwhelming or just don’t know where to start on your healing journey, consider working with a somatic therapist.

Here at Life By Design Therapy, we have a team of therapists who specialize in Somatic Therapy and holistic-based approaches to support you on your healing journey.

If you’re interested in learning more or working with us, click the link in our bio to book a free phone consultation today!

Your body holds onto so much more than you realize.Whether it’s stress, anxiety, or unprocessed emotions, these experien...
01/26/2026

Your body holds onto so much more than you realize.

Whether it’s stress, anxiety, or unprocessed emotions, these experiences can get “stuck” in your body and show up as tension, discomfort, or feeling disconnected.

That’s where somatic therapy comes in.

By focusing on the mind-body connection, somatic therapy helps you process emotions in a holistic and effective way.

✨ Benefits of somatic therapy include:
- Enhancing self-regulation so you can respond to life’s challenges with more ease.
- Increasing emotional awareness to help you name and process your feelings.
- Releasing stored trauma that your body has been holding onto.
- Connecting your mind and body for a greater sense of balance.
- Reducing stress and anxiety, so you can feel more grounded and at peace.

When starting any new therapy journey, it’s important to have a therapist that you feel safe and connected with.

Let me introduce you to Krystal!

Krystal Williams is a licensed, Somatic Therapist at Life By Design Therapy and she has many years of experience and trainings that add value to the work she does!

Her warm and inviting presence supports her clients with feeling safe to just be themselves.

If you live in California and are interested in working with Krystal, click the link in our bio to book a consultation today!

I’ve seen it happen so many times…two people who love each other deeply but feel stuck in the same painful patterns.If y...
01/23/2026

I’ve seen it happen so many times…two people who love each other deeply but feel stuck in the same painful patterns.

If you’ve ever thought, “Why do we keep having the same argument?” or “Why does it feel like we’re speaking different languages?”, it’s okay.

If communication feels unsafe, or misunderstandings are building into resentment, it might be time to get some extra support. Therapy isn’t about deciding who’s right or wrong, it’s about finding your way back to each other.

Here are 4 signs that couples therapy could be a beneficial step:

1. The Same Arguments Keep Happening: If you’re rehashing the same issues without any resolution, therapy can provide fresh insights into what’s really going on underneath.

2. Communication Feels Unsafe or One-Sided: When you feel emotionally unsafe or unheard, it’s hard to build a connection. A therapist can help facilitate these conversations in a safe space.

3. Emotional Distance Turns into Resentment: Unresolved misunderstandings often lead to resentment. A therapist can help you break the cycle before it deepens the divide.

4. When You Want to Repair the Disconnect: Seeking support isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a sign that you want to repair the emotional connection and move forward together.

You don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

If you're feeling stuck or overwhelmed, you're not alone. Seeking support is a courageous step toward understanding each other better and healing the hurt. If you recognize any of these signs, it might be time to explore therapy together. Life By Design Therapy is here to help you both find your way back to a healthier, more connected relationship.

Most people think they have no control over their own lives. It’s easy to get trapped in patterns of stress, fear, or ol...
01/22/2026

Most people think they have no control over their own lives. It’s easy to get trapped in patterns of stress, fear, or old habits, wondering why you feel unable to move forward.

It’s like constantly being stuck in the same cycle of overwhelm, leaving you feeling powerless to make any real change in your life.

Especially in times like these, when the world feels unpredictable and overwhelming, it’s easy to feel like you’re at the mercy of forces you can’t control.

While you may not be able to control everything happening around you, you have the power to control YOU. You can choose to reconnect with yourself, nurture your body, and heal your nervous system.

Remember, your nervous system has a huge influence on how you process stress, fear, and uncertainty. By calming your body and mind, you create space for clarity, resilience, and strength.

Imagine how your life could shift if you started with YOU—your peace, your presence, your choices.

The key to regaining control starts within 💖.

At Life By Design Therapy™, we believe that healing is more than just talking, it’s about feeling, experiencing, and tra...
01/21/2026

At Life By Design Therapy™, we believe that healing is more than just talking, it’s about feeling, experiencing, and transforming from the inside out.

Too many people seek therapy hoping for relief, only to find themselves stuck in surface-level conversations that don’t fully address their pain.

Our mission is to change that.

We provide somatic and holistic therapy that integrates the body, mind, and nervous system into the healing process.

Our approach isn’t just about managing symptoms, it’s about getting to the root of suffering and creating lasting change.

If you would like to work with a premier therapy center in Berkeley, California, or just learn more about our approach to mental health, click the link in our bio to schedule a free phone consultation.

We can’t wait to hear from you!

Did you know that emotions don’t just exist in your mind, they live in your body too?Unprocessed emotions can linger in ...
01/20/2026

Did you know that emotions don’t just exist in your mind, they live in your body too?

Unprocessed emotions can linger in our muscles, nervous system, and even our posture, impacting how we feel physically and emotionally.

This guide highlights 6 powerful ways to let go of emotions stored in your body:

🖊️ Journal About It: Writing helps externalize what you’re holding inside, giving clarity and relief.

🤝 Seek Support: Sharing with someone you trust or a therapist creates space to process safely.

🌳 Connect with Nature: Nature’s grounding energy can calm your body and mind.

😂 Cry or Laugh Freely: Both release pent-up energy and stress, offering emotional reset.

🎨 Get Creative: Art, music, or movement taps into your subconscious for expression.

💃 Shake It Out: Physical movement, like dancing or stretching, can literally release tension.

BUT! If you’re ready to take it further, somatic therapy can help.

By focusing on the connection between mind and body, somatic therapy uses techniques like breathwork, mindfulness, and body awareness to release stored trauma and emotions.

It’s a powerful way to process what words alone can’t express, leaving you feeling more balanced and grounded.

Did you know that Life By Design Therapy™ specializes in Somatic Therapy?

If you live in California and would like to learn more, click the link in our bio to schedule a free phone consultation!

Anxiety tells us that we have to be on high alert all the time and that if we relax, we might miss something important o...
01/20/2026

Anxiety tells us that we have to be on high alert all the time and that if we relax, we might miss something important or fail to prepare for the worst.

But here’s the truth, constantly being on edge doesn’t make the world any safer.

It only drains our energy, making it harder to think clearly, take action, or find peace.

Joy, connection, and rest are not distractions.

They are essential for resilience.

By intentionally making space for joy and rest, you’re not ignoring your responsibilities, you’re replenishing your capacity to handle them.

Here are a few simple ways to invite more ease and balance into your day:

- Step outside and take a deep breath of fresh air: Even a few minutes in nature, whether it’s a park, your backyard, or simply standing outside, can have a calming effect on the nervous system.

- Listen to music that soothes or uplifts you: Music has a direct impact on our mood. Create a playlist of songs that bring you comfort, peace, or energy, depending on what you need at the moment.

- Spend time with people who make you feel safe and supported: Connection is a powerful antidote to anxiety. Whether it’s a quick call, a heartfelt conversation, or simply sitting in the presence of a loved one, human connection can bring a sense of grounding and warmth.

- Engage in something creative, even if it’s just doodling for a few minutes: Creativity shifts the brain out of stress mode and into a state of flow. Whether it’s painting, writing, playing an instrument, or cooking a new recipe, engaging in creativity can bring a sense of calm and enjoyment.

Joy doesn’t have to be big or extravagant.

Even small moments of peace can be enough to remind you that life still holds good things.

If you would like to learn more about navigating anxiety in the midst of all the uncertainty in the world, click the link in our bio to check out my blog - How to Cope With Anxiety When the World Feels Overwhelming

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Hi, I’m Melody Wright, LMFT. I am the Founder of Life by Design Therapy and a Licensed Somatic Psychotherapist.

I enjoy working with adults and couples and I’m passionate about supporting clients in healing old wounds, connecting with their deepest desires and creating lasting change that has the potential to impact generations to come.

I also support therapists, coaches and entrepreneurs struggling to feel empowered around money and their practice. I utilize 18+ years worth of business ownership, tax and bookkeeping knowledge to support you in creating a business that brings you joy and abundance!

Meet Our Therapy Team Melody Wright, LMFT #107069 - Founder and Somatic Therapist Ashley Gregory, LMFT #110299 - Somatic Therapist Dr. Nia Saunders, PSY#31472 - Clinical Psychologist