11/11/2025
Breakups hit us in the center of our worth.
When someone leaves—especially with the reason of “you wouldn’t change” or “they wouldn’t change”—it’s easy to take it personally.
But pause for a second.
Think about how hard it is to change yourself… then really consider what it means to expect that from someone else.
We are not built the same.
We grow differently.
And real change only sticks when it comes from within, not because someone demanded it.
So if it ended, it wasn’t meant to be forced into shape.
Have the courage to walk away.
Let people who choose to leave… leave.
Love is not something you beg for, negotiate for, or shrink yourself to earn.
And their decision doesn’t get to rewrite your value.
You are enough. You are not the names you’ve been called.
Sticks and stones—remember that.
You rise anyway.
You are enough, you are worthy and your value doesn’t come from someone else.
Hypnosis is a great tool to rebuild your confidence and find the love that matches you. Dm if you wanna chat! I got you!
You Are Enough,
Tanya ❤️