The Sacred Dance with Fire

09/26/2025

https://open.substack.com/pub/brettagperry1/p/what-nursing-taught-me-about-toxic?r=2g2jr0&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false

(And How We Can Do Better)

09/25/2025

The moment I realized I was living my inherited fear-based life instead of my own desire-based life, everything changed.

I was choosing 'safety' over growth, obligation over inspiration, other people's comfort over my own truth.

The programming was so deep I thought those fears and limitations were just 'being realistic.'

But your family's survival strategies don't have to be your life strategy.

Take my Sacred Fire Assessment to discover which inherited patterns are keeping you playing small.

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09/16/2025

REAL TALK: You are feeling unnoticed. But what if your voice could spark a fire?
I have to report that I feel like I have been playing small here lately and not creating the impact I know I am here to make, because I start feeling like a failure and very self-conscious.
Here's my story (and why I'm sharing it):
So, I'm the nurse that got fired for going to morning huddle on my assigned unit one day and called my co-workers fu***rs. I was so mad at being dismissed and having my 18 years of nursing experience negated in that meeting. Several of my teammates agreed with me and had wanted to say the same thing to those people, but I'm the one that got fired for it.
I love the story but I hate how I silently had to suffer for a year and blew up like that.
But I choose to change that. There are a lot of new people on my friends list, so I wanted to share what happened to me.
Now, I know I can help people not to do what I did and to help them move into the life they want to create or desire.
💡 THE TRUTH BOMB: You don't have to blow up your life to get what you need.
✨ Your voice matters. Your experience matters. Your years of dedication matter.
👆 TAG someone who needs to hear this.
💬 SHARE if you've ever felt silently dismissed at work.
❤️ REACT if you believe we can create change without burning bridges.
But for today, if you would like to see me make a bigger and more positive difference in the lives of a LOT more people...
Will you please drop me a note below? 👇
Sometimes our biggest breakdowns become our greatest breakthroughs. Let's turn that fire into fuel for something beautiful. 🔥➡️✨

09/13/2025

https://open.substack.com/pub/brettagperry1/p/the-breakdown-that-changed-everything?r=2g2jr0&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

A note from the frontlines of healthcare

09/09/2025

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but you can start over at any time.
I got fired for calling a room full of fellow RNs fu***rs-and I want to be know for that. Sine then I have been working hard to design the life I want to live.
I hate the 12-hour shifts, the sore feet, time away from my family. I especially hate being yelled at for being late with medication or not getting my documentation done along with the quadrillion other things that a busy RN has to get done before the end of the shift.
Why would I want to continue living like that?
Getting up in the morning to work in a place that sucks the life out of me, just so I can pay bills? Oh hell to the no.
Now, I do have to admit that I’ve been playing small and not making the impact I know that I’m here to make.
Because I’m so passionate about helping people live the way they want to live, I have shared my story far and wide, mostly because I know that there are others who feel the same way.
I know that there are a lot of people I could help who experience that deep dissatisfaction and disconnect from that person they really want to be. They feel like life is just passing them by and are exhausted from living up to other people’s expectations. They want to live life on their terms, and to find the joy of living the best life they can dream of. I want to help people find the freedom that they deserve.
I know I can help them design the life they desire.
I’ll share more tomorrow…
But for today, if you would like to see me make a bigger and more positive difference in the lives of a LOT more people...
Will you please drop me a note below? Or throw me an emoji or a like?

09/03/2025

Let's do this!

08/28/2025

Hey friends! My workbook is out in the cosmos and I have it on sale for the first 50 women! I thought I would invite you to purchase or just send others to it. I think it's brilliant! It's about a new framework for us ladies to bring needed change into our lives! I know there is alot of us who can benefit!

The SAcred Dance with fireAre you exhausted from living someone else's version of your life?That restless energy you feel? That inner voice whispering there must be more than this? Your fire is calling you home to yourself.From Sacred Rebellion to BreakthroughI'm Bretta Perry Rowell. After 18 years....