12/11/2025
39 weeks. The homestretch. The last week!
For so many women, this is the hardest part of pregnancy.
You are so ready to meet your baby, and at the same time:
Your body is tired, achy and sore.
Every cramp or twinge has you wondering, āIs this it?ā
The mucus plug shows up and youāre torn between āDid my water break?ā and āIs this normal?ā
Talk of inductions starts circling for what can feel like the smallest reasons.
Stress, fear and excitement are all tangled together.
And hereās the difficult truth: that mix of pressure, fear and overthinking can actually send your body and hormones a message to hold back from labor instead of embracing it. During the time you most want to meet your baby, it can feel like your mind and your body are working against you.
After more than a decade of walking with families through this exact week, my number one piece of advice is this:
Do things that make you genuinely happy and say good bye to stress and busy!
Not as a trick to āmake labor start,ā but because joy, safety and connection are what allows oxytocin to flow. And oxytocin is the hormone that helps bring your baby.
At 39 weeks, give yourself permission to enjoy your life:
Take a slow walk. Go on a small date or solo coffee run. Watch something that makes you laugh. Eat food you love. Make a simple memory that has nothing to do with centimeters or timing contractions. Go on a date with a friend or your partner!
Stay in touch with your provider for anything that feels off. But in the spaces between those checks and decisions, choose PEACE over panic whenever you can.
You got this mama ā¤ļø