28/12/2025
have a confession to make.
I get really depressed every November and December, and I never really allowed myself to name it—let alone talk about it.
The holidays are supposed to feel joyful, connected, and warm. But for me, they often bring up grief, loneliness, financial stress, exhaustion, and a deep sense of pressure to be “okay.” For years, I pushed through it quietly, assuming everyone else was handling it better than I was.
What I’m learning is this: a lot of us struggle during this season. Some are grieving people they’ve lost. Some are navigating broken relationships, strained families, health issues, or money worries. Some are just tired—emotionally and physically—and the extra expectations feel overwhelming.
If this time of year feels heavy for you, please know you’re not weak, broken, or ungrateful. You’re human.
This is just a gentle reminder to check in with yourself—and with others. Lead with a little more compassion. Rest when you can. Lower the bar where possible. And if the holidays don’t look or feel how they “should,” that’s okay.
You’re not alone in this, even when it feels that way. 🤍
Sending love to anyone quietly carrying more than they show.