07/11/2025
Family Promises
One of the hardest things for any young adult to learn — especially today — is how to make a specific promise to themselves… and keep it.
Not a vague intention like
“I’ll do better.”
Not a half-hearted plan like
“I’ll start tomorrow.”
I mean a real promise.
A promise with direction, purpose, and follow-through.
Most parents see the same pattern:
Their son or daughter means well…
They start strong…
Then something small derails them — distraction, doubt, comfort, or the crowd around them — and the promise breaks.
And here’s the truth most people never say out loud:
If a young adult can’t keep promises to themselves, life gets harder.
If they learn to keep those promises, life gets bigger.
This is the heartbeat of the King Maker Program — teaching young adults how to choose their promises wisely, act on them daily, and follow through even when it’s inconvenient, uncomfortable, or unpopular.
Because a young adult who can keep a promise to themselves becomes unstoppable.
They build confidence from the inside.
They create their own momentum.
They stop drifting.
They start leading.
And parents finally get to exhale — not because someone “fixed” their child, but because their child learned to lead their own life.
If you’ve been watching your son or daughter try, fall short, try again, and lose hope…
Just know this:
The ability to make and keep promises to yourself isn’t a personality trait.
It’s a skill — and it can be taught.
And once they learn it… Everything changes.
King Maker Program