02/17/2026
Because the idea of coming back to 200 unread messages and a pile of work feels more stressful than just... not fully unplugging. đŤ
So you donât. You stay tethered. You stay âon top of it.â And you call it being responsible.
So here you are on day two of your vacation, checking Slack âjust to make sure nothingâs on fire,â responding to âquickâ emails, and mentally running through your project list while sitting on the beach.
But when you canât take time off without working, when rest feels more anxiety-inducing than just staying plugged in, when the thought of being unreachable for 48 hours makes your chest tight, thatâs not responsibility. Thatâs your nervous system telling you itâs not safe to let go.
High-functioning anxiety convinces you that your value is tied to your availability. That if youâre not constantly managing, monitoring, and producing, something terrible will happen. That rest is something you have to earn and even then, it better be âproductive rest.â
We normalize this. We joke about it. We say âsame!â in the group chat when someone admits they worked through their vacation.
But normalizing it doesnât make it healthy. It just makes it harder to recognize when you actually need support.
What I want you to know is that if you canât disconnect without your anxiety spiking, thatâs trauma talking.đđž
Somewhere along the way, you learned that letting your guard down wasnât safe.
That you had to stay vigilant, stay perfect, stay indispensableâor else. And now, even when thereâs no real threat, your body canât tell the difference.
Therapy can help you understand where that comes from and give your nervous system permission to finally relax.
You deserve PTO that actually feels like time off. You deserve to rest without feeling guilty or worrying that everything is going to fall apart.
You deserve to exist without constantly proving your worth.
Ready to stop performing productivity and start actually healing? â¤ď¸âđŠš
Iâm accepting new clients in New Jersey.
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