04/07/2026
Reactivity happens fast. A tone of voice, a barking dog, a critical comment and suddenly the nervous system is activated. The mind is spinning, and we’re no longer choosing our response.
This is the nervous system doing its job to protect us. Sometimes our reactions are based on past experiences and memories.
With a consistent practice, we begin to notice the moment before the reaction fully takes over, perhaps it's a tightening in the chest, a rush of heat, a story forming in the mind.
In that small but powerful space, something new becomes possible, a pause and a different choice. This is where freedom lives, not in never reacting, but in no longer being owned by our reactions.
Over time, mindfulness helps the brain and body feel safer, softening the intensity of these automatic responses and allowing us to meet ourselves, and others, with greater steadiness and care.
When I started noticing subtle changes in how I responded, I was motivated to continue practicing mindfulness. What have you noticed?
- Brenda Lindsay, Mind Transformations LLC