11/20/2025
The holidays can be joyful and overwhelming.
As an OT, I’m always thinking about one thing: participation.
How can we make gatherings feel safe and accessible for every nervous system at the table?
A simple place to start:
1) Ask instead of assume. “Is there anything I can do to make this space more comfortable for you or your child?”
2) Support sensory needs – quiet corners, movement breaks, soft lighting.
3) Honor food differences – safe foods, labels, flexibility.
4) Allow people to participate in the ways that work for them.
When we create environment environments that feel safe, flexible, and compassionate, we make room for true connection and belonging. That’s what the holidays are really about.