Vacca Associates Family Checks 'n Balances

Vacca Associates Family Checks 'n Balances A Bit of My Story......and Why I Do What I Do

I am a people person....love people....of all ages!! An interesting combination, and one I have loved. Why?

Vacca Associates Family Checks n’ Balances is your personal concierge... budgeting/bill pay, transport/coordination of medical/dental appointments, housing moves, garage/estate sales, being an advocate - whatever daily life involves! So, it came as no surprise when I found myself working with both teenagers and older adults! They are so much alike in my mind....exploring, interesting, testing the patience of many, challenging preconceived ideas, great adapters, unpredictable and incredibly loving and caring. My career path took me into aging and healthcare...and youth ministry! In aging and healthcare, I have spent decades working directly with older adults and their families, designing new programs for an aging population, training healthcare and social service professionals on aging issues, leading retirement planning seminars, and advocating on legislation impacting older adults. I also became involved in the financial services industry as a licensed insurance agent and securities licensed advisor (my securities license I have let go of so I can do my current work). In youth ministry, I have worked with hundreds of teens, young adults and their families, teaching and training, mentoring, supporting and housing, and putting my counseling training to good use. Through all of my experiences, I have realized that I like solving problems, being an advocate and mediator, and dealing with whatever need to be done. To help make life a bit easier, less confusing and complicated, relieving the stress of being overwhelmed so many family caregivers experience and letting family be "family" and not having to be the 'pro' in the many aspects of aging-related issues and concerns. I often tell people, .."I am just a 'life manager. Whatever life throws at you, I can help manage and I can walk the journey with you to help in anyway I can." So, my work is all about....YOU!! I am here to make your life run easier and smoother....from getting the things done that need doing each day to planning ahead for the unknown future. And, I have a number of trusted colleagues I work with to ensure that you get the right input, insight and understanding so you can make the best informed decisions for you and your loved ones.

Here's my latest video on the 'why' of wills, trusts powers of attorney. It's just a quick overview and let me know if y...
03/04/2026

Here's my latest video on the 'why' of wills, trusts powers of attorney.

It's just a quick overview and let me know if you have any questions or comments!

I was asked by one of my community members about whether her parents needed a trust, estate plan or will. My short answer: yes!. In this short video I shar...

02/19/2026

I had the pleasure of being interviewed by a colleague, Anna Murrieta, as part of her guest speaker program in her Skool community, Grandparents Corner.

I hope you will take time to watch our conversation. Here's the link to watch it:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vseByBUuRtI?views

It was fun and there were lots of nuggets of tips and insights that were shared.

And, join my Skool group, The Family Care Compass. It is free to join and it's a great group of people sharing with one another.

Click here to join: https://www.skool.com/thefamilycarecompass/

To all my Facebook friends...
02/13/2026

To all my Facebook friends...

I just posted my latest video on my V***a Associates YouTube channel.  It is a response to a question on what a family m...
02/12/2026

I just posted my latest video on my V***a Associates YouTube channel. It is a response to a question on what a family member should do if they see loved one in severe mental decline.

Because this is such a difficult and complex issue, this video provides some initial pointers and leaves much yet to be discussed.

Take a look, leave me any comments or ask any questions. We're on the journey of caregiving together.

This video is in response to a question I was asked by a member of my Skool community, The Family Care Compass, about what a family member should be doing if...

Hey there!I am going to be interviewed this Thursday, Feb. 5, 9:00 am to 10:00 am Pacific by Anna Murrietta, of Grandpar...
02/03/2026

Hey there!

I am going to be interviewed this Thursday, Feb. 5, 9:00 am to 10:00 am Pacific by Anna Murrietta, of Grandparents Corner, Skool community (skool.com/grandparents-corner)

Anna has such a fun and interesting group for all things related to being a grandparent and loving on those grandkids. Check it out on the link above to her Skool community.

Here's the link to join us on Thursday: https://us06web.zoom.us/j/5177360633?pwd=UXd5WHRYUEdGbm5SdHIvUDA0amx6UT09&omn=84387647212

I hope to see you there!!!

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01/01/2026
To all my family and friends....
12/24/2025

To all my family and friends....

To all of my Facebook friends and colleagues....
11/24/2025

To all of my Facebook friends and colleagues....

Here's one of my latest videos on YouTube - it's a great exercise to go through to see what you a able, willing and happ...
11/20/2025

Here's one of my latest videos on YouTube -
it's a great exercise to go through to see what you a able, willing and happy to do to help care for an aging loved one.

Would this be a helpful exercise to do for your situation? Let me know!

Here's an exercise I do with my families, especially when there are multiple caregivers, whether those are family members or paid support. By going through ...

Happy Veterans Day!!
11/11/2025

Happy Veterans Day!!

How do you figure out when to step in and step up to help a loved one?Here's a short video on some key events that can s...
11/10/2025

How do you figure out when to step in and step up to help a loved one?

Here's a short video on some key events that can signal that it's time to help out.

(Don't mind my voice - allergies again!!)

How do you know when to step in and help your aging parents or grandparents? What are the typical situations you can watch for that cue you on the expanding...

To all my friends and FB family....to those of you who served in the Marine Corps....Happy 250th Birthday!!
11/10/2025

To all my friends and FB family....to those of you who served in the Marine Corps....Happy 250th Birthday!!

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A Bit of My Story...and Why I Do What I Do

I am a people person....love people...of all ages! So, it came as no surprise when I found myself working both with teenagers and older adults! They are so much alike in my mind...exploring, interesting, testing the patience of many, challenging preconceived ideas, great adapters, unpredictable, and incredibly loving and caring. My career path took me into aging and healthcare... and youth ministry! An interesting combination, and one I have loved. In aging and healthcare, I have spent decades working directly with older adults and their families, designing new programs for an aging population, training healthcare and social service professionals on aging issues, leading retirement planning seminars, and advocating on legislation impacting older adults. I also became involved in the financial services industry as a licensed insurance agent and securities licensed advisor (my securities license I have let go of so I can do my current work). In youth ministry, I have worked with hundreds of teens, young adults and their families, teaching and training, mentoring, supporting and housing, and putting my counseling training to good use.

Through all of my experiences, I have realized that I like solving problems, being an advocate and mediator, and dealing with whatever needs to be done. Why? To help make life a bit easier, less confusing and complicated, relieving the stress of being overwhelmed so many family caregivers experience and letting family be ‘family’ and not having to be the ‘pro’ in the many aspects of aging-related issues and concerns. I often tell people.. “I am just a ‘life manager.’ Whatever life throws at you, I can help manage and I can walk the journey with you to help in anyway I can.”

So, my work is all about.....YOU! I am here to make your life run easier and smoother.....from getting the things done that need doing each day to planning ahead for the unknown future. And, I have a number of trusted colleagues I work with to ensure that you get the right input, insight and understanding so you can make the best informed decisions for you and your loved ones.

(Why the ocean picture? I love the ocean...love the beach....love the calming, constant rhythm of water. This photo is one I took at Point Reyes.)