01/15/2026
Month 3 isnât a failure point.
Itâs a threshold.
I was stuck in short-term relationships for 10 years because I couldn't get past Stage One of relationships (infatuation).
Every step I got to Step 2 (disillusionment) it would fall apart.
Not because the person was wrong.
Not because the spark was gone.
But because I didnât yet know how to feel safe in reality vs the fantasy.
Reality felt boring, indifferent - I was scared of vulnerability, sharing life together, letting him in.
I was scared I would lose myself, lose my power, get bored, grow sick of each other etc...
Disillusionment is the first time love asks you to stay when fantasy fades and most of us were never taught how to do that.
I know I wasn't.
Thatâs the work I do now.
Helping women move past chemistry and into real, sustainable intimacy.
And I promise you REALITY is 1000x sexier and more fun than fantasy. đ
If love keeps ending at the same stage, itâs not bad luck.
Itâs a pattern and patterns can be healed.
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