02/09/2023
I always tell folks that while *most* first births are marathons…you never really know. And then I tell them this story 😂
First time mom went into labor and let me know contractions had started. She was planning on a birth center birth…and so she knew all the things to do in early labor. Rest. Eat. Hydrate. But within an hour or so, her husband reached out and said things were picking up. I heard her over the phone during a contraction and told them I thought it might be wise to head in.
Dad called me back about 5 min later and told me her water had broke. I heard another contraction and I said we should *definitely* all head to the birth center.
I grabbed my bags and hopped in my car.
As I was driving down South Broadway, I saw dad calling again and I just knew why he was calling.
“We can see his head!”
I told them to pull over, and I somehow happened to be driving right behind them. When I saw his car turn, I turned as well and hopped out of the car.
Dad was a neurosurgeon, and so I knew he would be calm under pressure. He was! A random ambulance happened to be just a few yards away from us…and so once they saw what was happening…they ran over.
They tried to get her out of the car and onto the gurney, but I said “no way!” (She was already crowning)
I kind of blocked the paramedics so that dad and mom could deliver their baby with as little fuss as possible. They did amazing, of course!
We were close to the birth center, so they decided to just drive mom and baby instead of transporting to the hospital. I hopped in the back of the car, and just offered reassurance. We made it to the birth center and settled in for some skin to skin.
So moral of the story: birth is always surprising. Not all first births are long. If your baby is coming fast: deep breaths, you’re doing this and you’re doing a great job.
Reposted Monet Nicole - Birthing Stories