01/26/2026
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The hurting, bleeding, and broken babies that want to date and bleed all over their relationship are upset about my perspective!! They are convinced that the helpmate/meet God said Eve was that God really meant she was a hurt mate for his hurt, and that's simply not true. Let me explain to you all with more Bible.
Respectfully, this is not an opinion; it’s the biblical order of creation.
Adam was formed, given identity, purpose, and assignment before Eve arrived: let me run it down for you all, since some obviously need it:
📖 Genesis 2:7 – God formed man.
📖 Genesis 2:15 – God placed him in the garden and gave him work.
📖 Genesis 2:19–20 – Adam named the animals (identity + authority).
📖 Genesis 2:18 – Then God said, “It is not good that man should be alone.”
📖 Genesis 2:22–24 – Eve was formed and brought to him.
Adam wasn’t broken.
He wasn’t wounded.
He wasn’t incomplete spiritually.
He was alone, not lonely, damaged, or needing healing. And Eve was not created to fix Adam. She was made to walk with someone who was already formed and to help him in God’s order.
The fall of man (when the serpent deceived Eve) that then unlocked (brokenness, hurt, pain, and sorrow), but our need for healing doesn’t happen until Genesis 3, and still, it isn't the job of Adam or Eve to heal one another after the fall.
God’s design was:
📖 Genesis 1:31 “God saw everything that He had made, and indeed it was very good.”
So yes two whole people given dominion and becoming one (📖 Genesis 2:24), not two wounded people looking for someone to complete what only God should heal.
That’s the point:
📖 Psalm 147:3 GOD heals the brokenhearted.
📖 Psalm 62:1 “My soul finds rest in GOD alone.”
📖 Matthew 5:8 “Blessed are the pure in heart.”
📖 Ephesians 4:13 speaks to maturity before unity.
Relationships are a gift, not a crutch.
A companion, not a savior.
A covenant, not a cure.
That’s Bible. Not culture. Not opinion. I am only sharing with y'all because I entered covenant broken and it wasn't what God wanted or ever designed so now I'm just trying to help us heal with God before picking a mate because broken people don’t see things with clarity and when you are hurting and just looking for a fix you dont make wise decisions about dating, and you are looking for a handyman not a husband.
Are you tired of avoiding your hurt and need someone to walk with you and give you strategy in how to get through book a clarity call with me at CoraBJakes.com lets get your chains broken!!
