02/20/2026
Get thisโฆ
Most of the health coaches I work with were never actually taught what emotions are.
Or HOW to connect with their own feelings.
Or how to identify what theyโre experiencing in the moment.
And because of thatโฆ they donโt always know how to hold an emotional/feelings container for clients either.
This is a HUGE gap in the field of well-being.
Not just in health coachingโฆ
but across healthcare and provider trainings in general.
Feelings and emotions are not just for therapy sessions.
They are part of being human and part of your daily experience.
Maybe you were told things like:
โDonโt cry.โ
โCalm down.โ
โYouโre too sensitive.โ
โStop overreacting.โ
AKA: your feelings donโt matterโฆ so donโt have them.
If you grew up in a home like this, youโre not alone. I did too.
So we grow up thinking emotions are problems. Or we are the problem.
But emotions are not flaws.
Theyโre signals.
Guidance signals from within.
Theyโre information.
Emotions are literally energy in motion, energy moving through your body and nervous system.
And whether we realize it or notโฆ we can often feel emotions in other people.
In their tone.
Their posture.
Their presence.
Their energy.
Some people hide emotions well. Some donโt.
But theyโre always there.
In psychology and consciousness research, including the Map of Consciousness developed by Dr. David Hawkins, emotions are associated with different energetic states that influence perception, behavior, and physiology.
Which means:
Understanding your emotions isnโt just โself-help.โ
And helping someone identify what theyโre feeling is one of the most regulating, empowering, and transformative experiences a human can have.
It changes how you experience life. How you relate to yourself.
How you show up with others.
And how you coach.
This is the beginning of a series where I break emotions down in a way you may have never seen before.
Save this if you want to deepen your self-awareness and the way you hold space for others โค๏ธ
xx,
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