03/23/2022
WHY DO WE JUDGE OTHER PEOPLE?
♍️ As a Virgo I know ALLLL ABOUT JUDGING others 😂
Even if you don’t consider yourself to be judgmental, judging is an automatic process.
WE JUDGE OTHERS and WE JUDGE OURSELVES.
Within a few seconds of meeting (or even just seeing) someone, you are asking yourself:
1. Do I TRUST this person?
2. Do I RESPECT this person?
In our (seemingly) highly competitive world, we may tend to prioritize RESPECT.
We try to gain the respect of others through our achievements, appearances, and other outward displays of Respectability.
However, our brains actually prioritize TRUST over Respect.
This means that it is foundational to build trust with someone, before you gain their respect.
Also: Your accomplishments only matter to another person if they feel a sense of connection with you first.
LETS GO DEEPER WITH THIS…
and consider the importance of SELF TRUST and SELF RESPECT.
In the same way, trusting yourself is foundational to respecting yourself.
To build COMPETENCE in any skill, talent, or habit, you must be able to trust yourself.
HOW DO WE BUILD TRUST?
1. Keep your promises. If you say you’re going to do something, do it.
2. Celebrate your wins. See your successes (big and small) as proof of your competence.
3. Talk to yourself kindly. Develop an inner dialogue of warmth and unwavering support.
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