03/09/2026
I will fight for the rest of my life to make a difference. Recently, I was told that SHARING my health journey is "bragging." 100% incorrect! I am sharing my struggle and overcoming to HELP SAVE LIVES......... if someone thinks it's "bragging, " it's because your mind is LIMITED, keep that LIMITATION to YOURSELF! As for me, I think we all deserve to have life! and Health, so I am HAPPY TO SHARE what I KNOW.
People often ask me why I care so much, why im so passionate about helping others change thier lives so they can be healthy and live;
I believe that every person faces many life defining moments on thier journey and each expierence, heartache, tradigidy, loss, makes us who we are to become, either these moments strenghten us or break us; people ask me why i care so much? why? why is matters to me? why? why I try so hard to reach out to people struggling? why? I believe that this one moment in my life is the very reason I care so much and I fight so hard and why I never give up, why I cant give up.
This beautiful woman in the photo is my Pam;
Pam was my mother figure, my friend, my mentor, She had decided to get the bariatric weightloss surgery not for vanity but for health reason to better her quality of life for her and her 2 remaining children ( her oldest son my best buddy Branden was killed in Iraq during the war) she had desired to under go the surgery, recover and finally regain health so she could live a full life for her boys.
For the rest of my life I will NEVER forget what tragidy happened to my pam, every time I close my eyes I can see her, there is not a day that passes that I dont think of her and it pushes me to fight harder, Pam had gotten the surgery from a trusted professional here in America and shortly after she was released from the hospital after being cleared for recovery she started to expierence complications from the surgery, she ended up in the critical care unit at the hospital from these complications and NEVER woke up to even have a fighting chance at life, at fighting, SHE never woke up to see her two sons again, never to see anyone that she loved again, she NEVER woke up again, she lost her life. I will remember this for the rest of my life, I will remember being at her side the entire time in the hospital praying over her, praying for a miracle that she would recover and be alive to live the rest of her life with her children, I will remember seeing tubes coming out of her body as the doctors tried everything they could to save her life from a sensless error of another doctor at another hospital, I will remember seeing her childrens faces as they lost thier mother, all hope, and completely broken knowing she would be forever gone, I will forever remember crying with her sisters as they lost thier best friend, I will for ever remember seeing the anguish on all the people who loved pam and it was many because she was a amazing woman who loved so many of us and treated us each as her own family, I will remember the day my friend lost her life to a weightloss battle she never got the chance to fight because her life was stolen from her and because of this I reach out letting people who struggle with weight like I once did that if they are willing to fight i will fight beside them regardless how many times they fall, or quit, or walk away and come back that each time I will fight with them, for them, for thier life, becuase life is important and each person deserves to be alive, healthy and happy. I never quit because life is important and I honor Pams life in every life I try to reach out to, that regardless what paths a person feels they need to take on thier own personal journey they have options, there is hope, This is why I care so much, my friend died fighting this battle and for her I will fight the rest of my life to make a diffrence.
