01/23/2026
One of the most important lessons on the love journey is learning to feel the difference between someone who desires a relationship and someone who is comfortable in a situationship.
A relationship feels steady. It offers emotional safety, consistency, and clarity. You’re not guessing where you stand, you’re met with intention.
A situationship feels uncertain. It lives in mixed signals, delayed responses, and “almosts.” It asks you to stay hopeful while accepting less than you need.
This awareness isn’t meant to harden your heart. It’s meant to protect your energy.
When you honor your needs and listen to what someone is truly offering, you stop forcing alignment where it doesn’t exist.
Love that is meant for you will not keep you confused. It will feel safe, reciprocal, and clear.
May you choose connections that nourish your spirit, not ones that keep you waiting❤️