10/21/2025
If you believe you’re “bad at being consistent,” your brain will look for proof: skipped workouts, missed meals, anything that confirms that story.
That’s confirmation bias in action: we subconsciously seek evidence that supports what we already believe.
But here’s the good news: you can use that same psychology to your advantage.
If you start identifying as someone who takes care of their health, your brain will start noticing every action that aligns with that:
drinking water before coffee, prepping a balanced lunch, choosing rest when you need it, showing up for a short workout even when it’s not perfect.
Those small moments reinforce your new identity. Over time, your choices start to feel natural — not forced.
You don’t need to “fake it till you make it.”
You just need to act like the kind of person you want to become, one decision at a time.
That’s how real change sticks: not through willpower, but through alignment.
If you’ve been trying to stay consistent but feel like you’re stuck in old stories, this is exactly what I help clients work through.
We shift the mindset first and the habits follow.