01/01/2022
Long post, but worth reading it.
Why de We Really Celebrate New Year's Day?
What does it have to do with death and dying?
At one second past midnight on January 1st 2022, the day will changed from Friday to Saturday, usually a transition of no special significance. But somehow we've decided that this change, which will end one year and begin the next, is different.
Why does the start of the new year carry such special symbolism? And why is its celebration so common around the world, as it has been for at least as long as there have been calendars? Given all the energy and resources we invest not just in the celebration but also in our efforts to make good on a fresh set of resolutions, even though we mostly fail to keep them. It may be that the symbolism we attach to this moment is rooted in one of the most powerful motivations of all: our motivation to survive.
New Year’s Day provides us the chance to celebrate having made it through another 365 data.
Phew! Another year over, and here we still are! Time to raise our glasses and toast our survival.
The flip side of this is represented by the year-end obituary summaries of those who didn’t make it, reassuring those of us who did.
But what about those resolutions? Aren’t they about survival, too—living healthier, better, longer? New Year’s resolutions are examples of the universal human desire to have some control over what lies ahead, because the future is unsettlingly unknowable. Not knowing what’s to come means we don’t know what we need to know to keep ourselves safe. Committing to them, at least for a moment, gives us a feeling of more control over the uncertain days to come.
Interestingly, New Years resolutions also commonly include things like treating people better, making new friends, and paying off debts.
How does all this social "resolving" connect to survival? Simple: We are social animals. We have evolved to depend on others, literally, for our health and safety. Treating people well is a good way to be treated well. “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you," it turns out, is a great survival strategy.
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