J the Therapist

J the Therapist Supporting high Achieving Individuals and Couples Communication through therapy

12/05/2025

Should you be your child’s friend? YES!

Respect comes from relationship. Relationship will outlast fear EVERY TIME.

Fear does not teach your children anything other than you are not safe and that will turn them into adults who shrink, people please or escape because they do not know how to safely be themselves.



11/01/2025

How would you interact with you children if you weren’t fearful?

10/09/2025

When making friends assume less and ask questions more 😀



There’s a strength inside you—quiet but unstoppable—that’s bigger than any obstacle in your path.When doubt creeps in, r...
07/28/2025

There’s a strength inside you—quiet but unstoppable—that’s bigger than any obstacle in your path.

When doubt creeps in, remember: you’ve already overcome so much, and you have what it takes to keep going.

Trust your power. Keep showing up. The mountain only looks big until you start climbing.

To the high achievers who are quietly drowning in responsibility...To the ones who are holding it all together—for your ...
07/25/2025

To the high achievers who are quietly drowning in responsibility...

To the ones who are holding it all together—for your team, your family, your community—
This one’s for you.

You’ve built a reputation for showing up.
Delivering.
Exceeding expectations.
But somewhere along the way, you started believing that if you don’t do it all, perfectly, on time, and with a smile... you’re failing.

Let me tell you something that might feel uncomfortable:

You’re allowed to fall short sometimes.
You’re allowed to take a breath.
You’re allowed to be human.

Failure is not a death sentence.
It’s data.
It’s direction.
It’s the part of the journey no one wants to talk about but everyone goes through—especially the successful ones.

You’re not letting people down when you have limits. You’re modeling what it looks like to live fully with boundaries and compassion.

Failure is not fatal.

What is fatal?

Ignoring your own capacity.
Pretending you’re invincible.
Shaming yourself for needing a break.
Courage isn’t perfection.

Courage is pausing, reassessing, getting back up—again.

You don’t have to do everything for everyone. You are allowed to just be.

Tag someone who needs this reminder today. 👇🏾

💥 Read that again.Setting boundaries isn’t about being mean. It’s about being clear on what you need, what you value, an...
07/18/2025

💥 Read that again.

Setting boundaries isn’t about being mean.
It’s about being clear on what you need, what you value, and what you’re no longer available for.

It’s not about building walls—it’s about building a life where you don’t have to shrink, overextend, or burn out to be liked, loved, or accepted.

Because when you respect yourself, everything changes—including the way others treat you.

🛑 What’s one boundary you’re committing to this week?

😵‍💫 Stuck in worry spiral that feels like it will never stop?I know, it started small—one anxious thought, then another,...
07/16/2025

😵‍💫 Stuck in worry spiral that feels like it will never stop?

I know, it started small—one anxious thought, then another, and suddenly you’re planning for disasters that haven’t even happened (and aren’t likely to but it feels like they will).

Let’s put a stop to that with 3 simple steps:

✨ Notice the worry — Pause and name it. “This is worry.” That awareness gives you power.

💬 Ask what it needs — What is the worry trying to tell you? Does it need reassurance, a plan, or just a break?

🧠 Remember what you know — Bring the facts, not the fears. You e done hard things, you’ve been through hard times. You did it all before. You will do it all again.

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