01/08/2026
Guess what? I applied for a job a few weeks ago.
It was a part-time, remote career consultant role,
exactly the kind of work I’ve been doing for years.
For the qualifications, I checked every single box.
I even had two internal connections who could vouch for me.
On paper, it felt like a no-brainer.
Can you guess what happened next??
Yep. Rejected. The infamous: Thanks but no thanks.
That rejection hit harder than expected.
Why?
It just didn’t make sense.
In my mind, I was the perfect candidate. At least one worthy of an interview.
In this job market, the thing is …
You probably won’t ever find out why you were passed over.
Like I tell my clients, rejection does NOT equate to value (or lack of) ~
And TBH, we just don’t know what’s going on internally at a company.
There could be tons of reasons why you were passed over…
→It 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 have something to do with your résumé
→It 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 be your limited experience
→And it 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 have nothing to do with you.
This process gave me a whole new level of empathy for the people I work with every day.
The leaders. The job seekers. The professionals who are doing all the right things and still getting shut down—quickly, quietly, without explanation.
If that’s you right now, I want you to know~
I see you. I hear you. I’ve been you.
And when I say “the right role is out there,” I’m not just saying that because it sounds good.
I say it because I believe it…with all of my being.
So if you've been passed over for a role you knew you were right for—you're not alone.
If this resonates, feel free to share. Or drop a comment and let me know what the job search has looked like for you lately—I’d love to hear.