11/07/2025
It's been a few weeks since this event, and I’m still so encouraged by everyone who showed up and by the stories that were shared so generously.
I was deeply moved by Baldwin and Larissa's story telling, and their family's openness, vulnerability and courage in letting all of us enter into their journey of discovering their family history. Far East Deep South isn’t just a documentary; it’s an invitation for all of us to reconnect with the stories that shaped us. I HIGHLY recommend that you watch it.
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I also walked away grateful for Dr. Daniel Lee from Fuller Seminary, whose theological wisdom reminded us that God loves us fully. And that part of embracing that love as Asian Americans means knowing our histories, our cultural stories, and the things we’ve carried across generations.
It was also powerful to hear from the Chinese Mississippi Delta community members, some who have lived many generations in Texas, some who traveled from other areas. Their presence and personal stories added depth, nuance, and humanity to a part of Chinese American history that so many of us were never taught.
And on a personal note, it meant the world to be supported by familiar faces: old friends and mentors who came out to encourage me: Alice Lee, Dave and Cindy Wu, and Pastor David and Cheryl Hsu. Your presence was such a gift. I wish I got photos with each of you, I'm not good at remembering to document, which is ironic given the event.
Below is a super brief outline of what I shared during the panel: centered on why family history and storytelling matter so much for our healing and for our future.
1. Breaking Survival & Trauma Narratives
Uncle Charles (Baldwin's father) believed his father abandoned him, but learning the real history (Exclusion laws, sacrifices, letters) changed the story from abandonment to survival and love.
Takeaway: Ask what came before the story you’ve carried. Compassion grows when the picture widens.
2. Both/And Connection
Pain pushes us into either/or thinking, but the Chiu family shows us that grief and joy, anger and gratitude can coexist.
Takeaway: Healing grows when two truths are allowed to belong together.
3. Generational History Matters
Family stories remind us we’re part of something bigger, and God’s faithfulness stretches across generations.
Takeaway: Understanding our history helps us choose what to carry forward and what to release.
4. Taking the Lead as Adults
In the film, the younger generation guided their father through the journey. Many of our parents grew up in survival and didn’t learn emotional “soft skills,” but we have more tools today.
Takeaway: We can bridge connection as adults, with compassion and healthier patterns.
