05/04/2019
YOU BELONG IN THE WEIGHT ROOM.
IN THE GROUP FITNESS ROOM.
IN THE CARDIO AREA.
IN THE STRETCHING AREA.
IN THE ENTIRETY OF THE GYM!
Take up YOUR space, ladies! Be present!
“YOU’RE A CHICK SO I THOUGHT YOU WERE JUST GOING TO DO ABS.”
A few years ago, I was sitting on a bench getting ready to warm up for bench press.
I hadn't loaded the bar yet because I was going start with a warm-up set using just the bar.
While I was sitting on the bench, a guy comes over, picks up the bar, and starts to walk away with it.
When I stopped him, he said, “Oh. You’re a chick so I thought you were just going to do abs."
I was literally ON the piece of equipment, and he walked up and took it away from me, assuming that I was just going to do ab work instead of bench press because I was a woman.
I could have shrugged it off or stayed quiet, and probably would have had it been early in my lifting journey when I was unsure if I belonged in the weight room.
But I didn’t.
I spoke up because I KNEW in my heart and my gut that I belonged there.
There will always be folks who question whether you belong in a space or have a right to be there.
You do.
Don’t be afraid to say so.
Even if your voice trembles. ❤️
Has anything like this ever happened to you? What did you do? I’d love to know!
Tell me 👇🏻👇🏻 below and tag a friend who would get FIRED UP about this.