04/06/2026
We don’t just learn about relationships from our partners—we learn them from the internet.
From TikTok advice to Instagram “perfect couples,” online culture is quietly shaping what we expect love to look like… often without us realizing it. And those expectations can create pressure, disappointment, and disconnection when real relationships don’t match the highlight reel.
If you’ve ever felt like your relationship should feel easier, more intuitive, or more “right”—this might be why.
I break this down (and what to do about it) in my latest blog.
Social media has quietly moved from something we check occasionally to something that shapes how we see ourselves, our partners, and our relationships. Platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat give us an endless window into others' lives, including their love lives.