02/18/2026
Alright, pull up a chair. Let’s talk confidentiality in couples counseling. Now, I’m not a couples counselor but I have worked with couples and families before. I dug into the actual ACA code of ethics to give you guys a breakdown. According to them, couples are considered a multi-client situation.
That means:
• Your primary responsibility is to both partners
• You must clarify who the client is
• You must define who holds privilege
• You must explain how records are accessed
• You must state your policy on secrets before treatment begins (intake)
The ACA does not require a “no secrets policy.”
But it does require that you clearly explain your policy in informed consent (A.2.a, A.8.b, B.4.b).
If you don’t clarify this upfront, and one partner discloses something privately, you could be an ethical issue.
✨ Clinicians — do you use a no-secrets policy? Why or why not?
Also, what setting should I do next? 👀