02/19/2025
February 19th was the day I had been anticipating for almost 10 years. My FINAL set of scans. This day in 2025 is the day, I have been waiting for since the day I was diagnosed in 2015. BUT on February 4, 2025 I sat with my best friend to get her pathology report. Wait! What?! This isnt how February is supposed to be. We made plans to celebrate that cancer is only in the past. How can it be that as I finish my treatment plan, hers is now beginning? We are suppose to be done.
Today will be a day to remember for both Jess and I. February 19th I will see my oncologist in Gainesville, if my scans show no evidence of disease I will finish my treatment plan and finally be considered CANCER FREE. On February 19th my best friend will also see one of my oncologist in Daytona Beach but she will be getting her treatment plan to start her cancer journey.
To many young football players she is Coach Jess , she is my boys NeeNee, Jess is my mom’s other daughter, and to me she is my chosen sister. A friendship that is hard to explain. We are a package deal, similar to a Buy 1 get 1 Free deal. To know me is to know her. She is strong, brave, and a fiesty ginger snap; there is no doubt she will get through this. My heart breaks to know she has to do it. In a second I would do all the chemo and radiation again just so she didn’t have to.
So, today while I should be over the moon excited I struggle to find joy on my journey. Like I said we are package deal so her fight is my fight, once we are both cancer free that’s when the real celebration will happen.