12/18/2025
Anyone out there feel better when you’re in control?
And when life gets chaotic or fast, it feels… uncomfortable.
Control is just your brain trying to keep you safe.
So you plan, anticipate, manage, correct, and carry… everything.
But the price of control can be:
your peace,
your bandwidth,
your confidence,
your ability to be present.
The goal isn’t to stop caring.
It’s to stop carrying more than you were meant to.
This is a pattern, and patterns take time to shift.
The first step is noticing when you’re controlling more than you need to.
Then, even if it's hard and not perfect, practice releasing the tight grip on the outcome.
Awareness → choice.
Choice → support.
Support → new patterns.
Is there anything this week you’d gladly relinquish control of?