19/07/2022
You may not know it yet but dating an overthinker is more than just a series of reassurance, surprise arguments and wild imagination. If you are in a relationship with one or you think you are dating one here are 3 things to remember in dating one:
1. Reassurance is not just “I love you”
You may think that saying I love you is the best way to provide assurance to your partner but sometimes that is not the case. Your actions is the best way to do it. A phone call, a small surprise even as simple as a hug is a way of assurance. Know their love language, and take the extra step into doing it. It will never be hard to assure them if your feelings are real, the simple gestures of love can be as simple yet very heart warming to your partner
However be cautious, demanding reassurance can be used in a matter that it can be toxic to you, so remember, know your limits as well, never fall for “…..kapag di mo ginawa di mo na ako lab.” That is just plain manipulation and will be exhausting to you. Never fall for self pity to guilt trip you into assuring them you always be around even loving them forever. You may find yourself empty giving everything to them. Communication is key, and if they are still unappreciative of you…YOU WALK AWAY.
2. Always tell them the truth
Yes, this should be obvious but never think of telling them white lies. Overthinking people are people with trust issues so you need to understand where are they coming from. Telling them even the smallest lies can make them think if you can lie about the small things you can definitely lie about the big things. Yes they trust you but the smallest lie can turn that around. They are being cautious as they were once in the pain caused by lies, understand them.
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