Evidential Medium Debbie

12/19/2025

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12/19/2025

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The Elephant In The Room

I always notice that when I come across someone I haven’t seen in a while, and I bring up the person I lost, they look at me in horror. Their face changes and they suddenly look like they’re trying to figure out what they should say…or that they can’t believe I’m still talking about it.

Sometimes it feels like there’s an elephant in the room…and that elephant is my grief.

If I say his name in a crowded room it goes quiet. If I start to tell my story nobody really wants to listen.

My grief is the elephant in the room because everybody is always trying so hard to get around it…and pretending it’s not there…but for me that’s never been an option.

Here’s the thing…what some people don’t understand is that I can’t just live the rest of my life pretending what happened…never happened.

It’s crazy to think that I would stop speaking about someone I love so much…because that would be like pretending he didn’t exist.

Instead of avoiding the elephant in the room…I wish people would just ask me questions, share a memory…or even just be kind.

I did some research and found out that elephants are actually big-hearted, compassionate and very protective of those they love. They also have some very unique ways of dealing with their own grief.

So maybe the elephant in the room isn’t just my grief…maybe it’s also me…and the only people that can really see me are those that have their own elephant in the room.

Gary Sturgis - “Surviving Grief”
Surviving Grief

12/19/2025

Plot twist. The people who hurt you the most in the physical, love you the most in the spiritual. They chose to descend so that you could ascend. The worst things done to you were soul contracts agreed upon by your higher self and soul tribe to activate dormant gifts, & light codes within you. The biggest mind f*ck is that pain is actually a gift. Your trauma is a portal, for In every wound lives a hidden technology. Abandonment wounds = portal to Divine Presence. Abuse = portal to Sacred Boundaries. Silence = Portal to Prophetic Voice. The depth of your pain is proportional to the age and power of your soul. Young souls are given gentle nudges. Ancient souls are given soulquakes, not to destroy them, but to unearth gifts they buried in other timelines. No two pains are alike. And so, no two healings are alike. This means your exact wound is your unique contribution to the healing of Earth. You were not just abused. You were initiated. Your pain is sacred. Your pain is intentional. Your pain is powerful. And when you stop hiding it, it will stop hurting. Because it will begin to heal others. And in healing them, you will finally be free. Forgive those who hurt you, they were simply the catalyst that allowed you to transmute your trauma & offer it to the world as medicine.

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Love the job Hospice does to honor the dying. My brother died in peace there 💙🙏🏻

12/02/2025

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12/02/2025

Speak and believe it into existence 🙏🏻💖