08/31/2025
The other day was a perfect example of why lack of accessible restrooms with powered height adjustable adult changing tables creates an undignified, unsafe, and often humiliating experience and existence for individuals with disabilities. Yesterday I had my second of three infusion treatments for the week. This is in a very busy satellite medical center for one of the top three largest health systems in the state. This appointment happened to be later than usual but nothing else out of the ordinary.
That said, by the end of the appointment, I desperately needed to change. If I could handle my needs in a standard stall, there would be no problem as long as I could make it to a restroom equip with a door opener. Unfortunately, that isn’t the case.
There also isn’t a single companion care restroom not behind clinic doors, not that I would ever want to lay on a dirty bathroom floor in a medical center, nor could I safely do so without help. In appointments with an accessible treatment table, that is often an option, but this was not one. Nor were there any clinics that I could request or beg for a place to change at the front desk, though I have had mixed results with that.
So the last option is changing in the back seat of my car. Yes, car. On that day though, that also was not feasible because of items back there. So I sat. Sat in my own wetness. Sat till my shorts were soaked.
Now think about that for a minute. If you had no bathroom access at a 3 hour medical appointment, often before or after others, would you think that was ok? Would it be ok if you had no option but to sit in your own wetness because the building isn’t built for your needs. This is something kids, teens, and adults with disabilities face every single day. Many times having to face the reality of sitting in a used brief or diaper for hours because there isn’t a bathroom to meet their needs. The last place this should be is in a health care setting.