03/04/2026
Thank you to everyone who applied to win the free Solo Recharge Weekend at Why Not Woodland Escape.
As I said, everyone deserves this time away. But alas, we could only choose one winner. This time. Perhaps there will be a next.
The winner shared this beautiful, cathartic, and powerful journal entry after their weekend stay. Hell yeah. Here's to knowing and owning your worth from this point forward because life's too damn short to live it any other way.
And the same goes for you, Facebook friend, if you relate.
"This is my goodbye.
Goodbye to the person I have become in the last year or so.
Goodbye to trying to prove that I’m worth having around.
Goodbye to putting everyone else in front of myself.
Goodbye to the places I stayed when I was not honored, valued, cherished, protected, and taken advantage of.
Goodbye to questioning my worth. Goodbye to wondering if someone thinks I’m not enough or too much.
Goodbye to caring if I’m not enough or too much.
Goodbye to fighting to keep a place in someone’s life that does not put in the effort to stay in mine.
Goodbye to walking on eggshells in hopes that I do not hurt or upset another. Goodbye to living small, to stay in their box.
Goodbye to worrying about whether I look too gay, too le***an, or not feminine enough.
Goodbye to over-functioning and over-performing.
Goodbye to keeping everyone else happy and comfortable with who I am.
Goodbye to the version of me who overthinks and overanalyzes every thought, every conversation, and interaction.
Goodbye. Goodbye.
This has all served a purpose. It is what I knew. It is how I knew how to survive since childhood.
I am no longer a child, and I no longer need to live this way.
Goodbye to this version of me.
Hello to becoming….
Questions to ask myself when I am doing for others:
Why am I doing it?
Do I have the time, money, and emotional bandwidth to do it without it being a detriment to myself?
Did they ask, or am I trying to anticipate their need?"
(pic: Hello springtime tulips! And goodbye, deer that like to eat them 🙂. Our son brought these back for us from the Netherlands, and we planted them at Why Not Woodland Escape last year.)